Frugalious Living

It's SEPTEMBER!!

2010-09-01T05:56:00.000-04:00

Good Morning Everyone!!

It's finally September! It's a time for Apple Cinnamon scented home sprays (I picked up one from Glade for .99cents), it's time to pull out the fabric pumpkins and change out the candles! I looooove Fall! My absolute favorite time of year! Yet today Mother Nature is insisting to delay it's arrival with highs in the 90's! Ahhhh when will she allow for crisp scented air to waffle in through open windows when we sleep, the beautiful changing of the leaves, pumpkin spice flavored coffee, walking the pup without sweating in places that just isn't natural. ;-)

I'm just happy to know it's closer than it was before! I wanted to share with you some pictures I've taken of changes I've made but my computer isn't recognizing my memory card. Not sure what's up there but I'll work on it and post as soon as I can.

I noticed some of you have great headers on your blog, HOME, CONTACT ME, etc....Can anyone tell me how to do this? I can't figure this one out!

Wishing you all a great first day of Fall!

Favorite kind of weekend....thrifty

2010-08-15T09:02:00.014-04:00

It's no secret that I love to thrift. I love the challenge of the hunt. Finding something among tables of things people no longer need or want. It's an exhilarating feeling when you find something you LOVE at next to nothing!

Last weekend a girlfriend and I got up way early and headed out to the monthly first Saturday Flea Market. We got there before 8am and were dissapointed to find that some vendors had pulled out due to the ridiculous heat waves we've been having. The market was closed and a lot of tables were bare. But we still had a great time and managed to walk away with some treasures!

Take a look at this lamp. I had it in my hand. There was a $5 sticker on it, which I was willing to pay. Until the vendor told me to make an offer, I said $3, he said $4, I said sold!

It's true beauty is when it's turned on.

My Mother in Law had one and I fell in love with it. So I knew it's beauty. It now sits in my front all as you come in.

I picked up this little hand made sign. The sticker said $1.50, but the lady told me to give her just $1.00.

This weekend we headed to one of my favorite stores of all time! The Christmas Tree Shoppes! They are building one right down the road from where I live...HEAVEN! I picked up little individual loaf pans. They were only 0.89 cents each!

So I picked up 3!

Now, I passed this little guy up once before, only because I lake cupboard space. But I saw him again and had to have him. Especially because a cute little rooster sits atop it. For $2.99 I quickly scooped him up!

He matches the cute little dog biscuit jar I picked up last time I was there, also for $2.99

I finally found a soap pump container that I love! It too, was $2.99 and fits perfectly with my kitchen.

I got this as a gift and love it! It was $1.99!

I hope you had a great weekend too!

I'm late, I'm late!!

2010-08-06T05:47:00.007-04:00

My commute to work is honestly, a block. So you'd think I'd get there early right? Umm, yah, about that. I get up well in advance, take the pup out and give myself enough time to wake up. So where does all my time go? In the washroom getting ready. Now, you've seen some pics of me going to work, I'm not that dolled up, I don't know enough about makeup to use that time to be extravagant. So, how is it that when I walk out of the washroom, I'm running late?!

It's a huge mystery.....so, I finally decided to get a clock for the room. But, I didn't feel like spending any money on it. So, I shopped the house. I had this sweet little clock above the cabinets in my kitchen, you can see it here.

I grabbed a chair, took her down and put her on the existing shelf in the washroom. She fit in perfectly!

I have some other "orange" touches in the washroom so I think it fits in well.

A couple of dollar store candles sit in my essential caddy on the counter.

I am so pleased! And it was totally free!! LOVE that!

~ Marcia

What I wore Wednesday

2010-08-03T21:41:00.010-04:00

I'm linking up to the Pleated Poppy again this week.

So here's another peek inside my messy closet. (I swear it's not that bad, it looks worse in pictures...that's possible, right?)

Work Week:
Peasant Top - $12.00 BCF
Pencil Skirt - Eons ago ?? (to be honest it was in my Goodwill donation pile...Glad I pulled that bad boy back)
Sandals - Free from my JCPenney Christmas Gift Card

Work week - at home after work.

Peasant Top - Special off season at Walmart $5

Shorts - Dots $10.00

Sandals -Payless special $8

Work Week:
Vneck tee -Eons ago! (I swear I don't throw clothing out until it frays in my hands)
Pink cardie - Stiches (Canadian store) - I'm guessing about $12.00
Jeans - Walmart $19.99
Shoes - Target $24.99 (LOVE)
Heart Necklace - Gift, Free! (but it was bought for .50cents at a yard sale)

Thanks for stopping by! I really should tackle that closet....

Swirling while standing still

2010-07-25T22:24:00.003-04:00

Are you at all like me, do you get up in the morning and go to work, being happy to have a job but feeling like life is passing you by? This is where I am lately. I am forever grateful to have a job that pays the bills but it's stagnant. It's dull, it's just there.

So I have decided to write a Life's Plan. Star in my own story, and decide where it is I'd love to be, besides in the office at 7am. It's a lot harder than it seems. I truly believe I have A.D.D. Seriously. No joke. My mind wanders constantly. I'm like that animated dog that can talk, and is in conversation until he sees a squirrel. Yup, that's me. Even when I say prayers, I find my mind wandering and I have to literally calm it before I can refocus. Not good. I believe HE is keeping tabs.

It's just that, I tend to get bored easily. So the thought of doing something for the rest of my days, scares me. Instead of tackling it, I just go with the flow....Well no more Missy! The ride on the lazy river is over! I'm pulling up my water socks (see how I did that, water socks, flows with the river ride...:) and heading in a new direction! What direction is that? I have no idea. I guess I should start with what it is I like. Like reading your blogs. Writing. Crafting. Thrifting. Laughing....Anybody with any ideas, just jump in...feel free. No seriously, I'd love to hear your ideas and how you're staring in your own story.

Are you doing what you love? How'd you get there? Do you have any tips? Pointers? Suggestions?

What I wore Wednesday

2010-07-22T21:59:00.017-04:00

I'm linking up to the Pleated Poppy's what I wore Wednesday party! I hope I'm not too late!!

Monday - Blouse - Walmart off season $5

- Boyfriend Jeans - Goodwill $7

- Sandals - Payless special $ 8

- Bracelet - Vanity $5

Tuesday - Tshirt - Bought Eons ago $ 5

- Shoes - Payless $ 7

- Jeans - Vanity $4.99

- Necklace - $3.99

- Flower Pin - Free! (See it here)

Wednesday - Blouse - My sister's closest - Free!

- Jeans - BCF - $12

- JCPenny Gift Card - Free! (sorry for the blurry picture)

- Silver bangle - My grandmas - Free!

I hope you enjoyed peeking into my closet. (I swear, it's really not that messy! I'll show you more of it later).

Thanks to Pleated Poppy! That was really fun.

Roscoe

2010-07-21T20:52:00.004-04:00

I feel the need to explain my decision. I have spent many a post about my baby Roscoe. He was a stray abandoned in an apartment when I first adopted him. I got him at 3 months of age and he brought me happiness, unconditional love and comfort.

From day one he would pee outside his box. Vet after vet couldn't find the issue. He was attracted to carpeting, so I removed all carpeting from my home. When I moved I made sure the apartment didn't have any carpeting. When carpeting wasn't available, he'd pee on my bed. Back from the vet with no explanation, I started living with my bedroom door closed. Roscoe brought his own set of issues, but he was a sweet soul and I adored my baby Roscoe. He brought me up through the deepest depths of sorrow.

In this new apartment, however, there is carpeting, and no chance of removing it. He peed constantly, I cleaned, he resoiled, I cleaned, he'd get infections from the chemicals I used to clean the carpeting. He was on antibiotics for a month at a time. Our very patient vet suggested we kennel him in our only bathroom in a dog cage for one month, letting him out only when we could supervise him. He was in the bathroom all alone all day long, and all night long for one month. This was in hopes of retraining him to use his litter box. He was also getting shots of ketofen.

Sadly, nothing worked. We found out that he had circulatory and heart problems that I hadn't known of. Why am I telling you all this? Because I shared a lot of my worries about his urine issues throughout this blog, because I don't want his little life to have been done in vain, and because I don't want you to think I made this decision lightly. It was a very hard day and a very sad one.

I don't believe animals are disposable. Neither does my hubby. We did this with very heavy hearts and we still miss him. He was family for 11 years and will always be.

I just wanted to share this with you.

Summer flower

2010-07-19T20:36:00.007-04:00

I've been inspired by the amazing transformations I've seen on so many talented blogs lately. When my world is busy and spinning I find peace in creating. I've never worked with fabric before so this was my first attempt. I inherited my grandma's sewing machine and with it came a treasure chest of needles, threads and buttons! I found these little pieces of fabric, and sewed them together. Then I added the little button to the center to resemble a flower. I sewed a safety pin to the back and voila!

The beaded necklace I've had for awhile, and I really don't like putting holes in my clothing so I decided to attach it to my necklace for a pop.

I'm pretty happy with my first try.

American Pickers

2010-07-15T05:36:00.004-04:00

Have you seen this show? It's on the History Channel. Just stumbled upon it on Monday and have found my favorite summer show! If you haven't seen it you can catch it on Monday night at 9/8C. Two guys, Mike and Frank, travel across the back roads of America in search of antique treasures. The episode I saw had them at an old gentleman's home where they stumbled upon an antique Studebaker! It was in perfect condition!!

It's amazing what people own and may not realize the treasures they have in their possession.

I've been to an antique flea market, my hubby finds dull so I didn't get to stay too long, but I don't know the value of things to know if I'm looking at jewels. I love yard sales but may dabble a bit more in the flea markets. Where are your favorite pick places?

Well Hello Summer....

2010-07-07T05:45:00.009-04:00

It has been HOT here on the East coast this past week. Sticky, steamy, hot. Just a run out and run back into the a/c kinda days. The poor pup has just been exhausted. We take her out, hose her off, and bring her back into the a/c.

This is her favorite place to be.

This heat has us all feeling beat, and it has made it almost unbearable to sit in my favorite spot, my little back porch. I did add some more touches to make it feel homey. I added a flag for the 4th of July but will keep it there b/c it's so cute.

I will paint both chairs white....it's just been to hot to continue.

I haven't been on for awhile...It has been a tough June. We had to say goodbye to my sweet baby Roscoe. It's no secret that he had urine problems but what we didn't know was that he had heart disease and circulatory issues. To honor him I put this little angel holding a kitty outside on my porch, where we spent a lot of time together.

Little piece of Heaven

2010-06-02T05:31:00.012-04:00

It's no secret.... hubby and I are currently renters. As the old saying goes, where ever you drop your hat is home, and I just love living here. It makes me feels like camping. Walk the dog, wave hello to passer byes, stop to chat with neighbors, let the pup visit with her doggy friends, then return home, only to get to do it again. I love it. Our neighbors have become friends.

My place to get away is my little deck. It's tiny, two chairs deep, two chairs wide (how's that for math? :) but it's my favorite place to have a cup of joe, while I read a good book and the pets lay out in the heat. It's a work in progress but here are pics of it so far.

A view from the patio door.

The ol' pine tree that offers shade and privacy.

My dumpster chairs will be white one day are adorned with comfy floral cushions.

Little decorative touches make it feel cozy.

Its a work in progress and I'll show you more pics as I update my favorite little spot.

~Marcia

A night out on the town with Travis Tritt

2010-05-24T05:33:00.009-04:00

We had a double date night with my in laws on Saturday and the four of us went to see Travis Tritt in concert! It was amazing! Not only is the man gorgeous, he is a very talented singer and incredible guitar player. He was smiling and dancing around, and he looked genuinely happy to be playing for us. It was a fantastic show. It was the 4th time my hubby has seen him and my first. I was sooo excited to go. He did not dissapoint!! The first thing I noticed was just how gorgeous of a man he is. He was very gregarious and friendly and has a beautiful southern drawl. His fans ranged from young girls to quite a few elderly couples.

It was a great night! I would most definitely see him again. I hope you had a great weekend too!

~ Marcia

A kitty update and warm wishes

2010-05-09T08:47:00.005-04:00

Hi friends!

I have been MIA for awhile now, seems that crate training a kitty is a lot of work! We've set him up in our one bathroom, in a doggy kennel with his litter box and water. Each night, he is let out of the kennel but is confined to the bathroom. He can eat, stretch his legs and play with his toys. Sounds lovely, right? So why he meows for 30 mins before calming down each night is beyond me! LOL. I do have to say that he's taken to it so much easier than I thought he would. I am so impressed with him! Since he's been kenneled, I have steamed the carpet 4 times. Even though I dry vacuum before steam cleaning you'd be amazed at the fur this thing picks up! I am in love! (Despite the steam cleaning, there's still the slight sent of urine. Any ideas? I've used the urine enzyme eliminators, but they are staining the beige carpet yellow, and still the smell lingers..)

So after 3 weeks of antibiotics 2 times a day, crate training him, I really think this may work out! He will visit the area where he use to frequent, sniff around a bit but then head straight to his litter box. I have renowned hope! We have yet to leave him out when we're at work or go to bed, that'll be the real test. But in the 10 years I've had him, he is more calm and seems more sure of himself. I'm surprised this is the only vet to suggest crate training a cat to use his litter....Awe well, just wanted to give you an update :)

I do want to wish all you mother's out there a very loving, spoiled Mother's Day! You are women of strength, abundant love, forgiveness and a foundation for our society. Much happiness to you on your special day!

~ Marcia

One last chance

2010-04-18T09:42:00.006-04:00

I was hoping to share a new post of something creative I have been working on, but alas, my life has been stalled by my loving furry babies. If you've read my blog before, you know that my baby Roscoe has had a pee problem since the day I've adopted him. He has a penance for peeing on carpet. I used to take it as, "this was life with Roscoe." But since Cinnamon started to develop serious urinary infections, that sent us to the emergency room at 3am, we finally put two and two together. Is it possible, that Cinnamon is getting these infections while lying on the carpet that Roscoe soiled, and that we doused in cat urine enzyme killer? We thought so, the vet said it could be a possibility. So the debate began, although I adore my baby Roscoe, I have lived 10 years of the competing smells of Lysol and cat pee. 10 years, of vet visits, special foods, behavioral visits, natural anti anxiety medications and closing the door to my bedroom (he prefers the bed if no carpet can be found).

After crying like a kid, (nose running, blubbering, eyes puffing, incoherent speech) we decided that Roscoe needed to be put down. I couldn't do it, so Hubby brought him to the vet. Then called me, and admitted he couldn't do it. The vet suggested a drug called Ketofen, which also helps humans with an overactive bladder. He says this has saved many a cat's life, so my sweet souled Hubby agreed to give it a try. One of the stipulations is that while on the medication we have to keep Roscoe kenneled for a month to break the carpet fascination. He's allowed out on supervised visits but not allowed in the area he previously soiled. It's a tad tough, as we live in a small space but we're dealing. It'll be a long month but you gotta do what you gotta do.

I am a tad leery to be honest, as I've had the "this will work" conversations before, but I am hoping, beyond hope that this truly will work. I don't want to give off the impression that I feel animals are disposable. In truth, it has been difficult to live within the restrictions of a cat who thinks outside his box. What is even most infuriating is there seems no rhythm or reason. Some days he uses his litter constantly, or he'll pee on the carpet, then walk into his room and use his box. :(

During his confinement we borrowed a friends' Bissel 2x Pro Heat carpet steamer. I am in loooove. It works like a charm. The carpet looks better than it did even when we moved in! So hopefully this is the change we all need and then we can live in peaceful harmony!

~ Marcia

Nursing a sick pup

2010-03-29T13:30:00.006-04:00

Some may find this strange or downright insane that my hubby and I rushed our pup to the emergency room at 1:00am Sunday morning after we found her having tremors. Doctor on call, was not, hmmm, how can I put this....pleasant. In fact, my hubby and I both felt that we had disturb his sleep by our visit. 2 and a half hours and many hundreds of dollars later, we took our very tired and very sick pup home to sleep. (We too were exhausted). Turns out, the pup and I would be awake only a few short hours later as her pain meds had worn off. She was given Metacam for pain, Tramadol, for pain and an antibiotic for the actual problem, she has a raging urinary infection. This is her 3rd one, and by far her worst. The other two didn't require pain medication, didn't result in her having tremors and didn't make her vomit, (the technician at the emergency room let out a deep sigh when my poor sick pup vomited a second time on their floor). Can you tell I am not impressed with our experience? Anyway, we have an appointment with our vet this afternoon. I have taken the day off to monitor her as the Tramadol, makes her whine and seem frightened.

What irks me is that yesterday morning she didn't want to eat, or drink and the meds they had given her and seemed to wear off. So we called the vet to ask if there was anything we can do. We had just seen them, they told us that the Tramadol's dosage could be modified while we were there, but when we called they refused to adjust her medication until we went back there and spent another $30 for a second visit. Only 4 hours after we spent hundreds on her meds/tests!! So hubby and I searched online and found she could be given an 3rd pill (this was later confirmed by them when I called yet again for help). Ugggh. So frustrating.

I asked if there was anything we can do to help prevent them, as I come home from work every day at lunch to let her potty, I give her Vitamin C tablets they suggested and she still gets sick. They suggested that we perhaps move to a less dog filled area since Cinnamon likes to mark her territory which is why they feel she is getting infections. So I'm looking for places to move.

Do you have a female dog that gets urinary infections? Can you suggest anything that has worked for you?

Any ideas or feedback would be greatly appreciated!

~Marcia

Dog Day

2010-03-25T06:42:00.010-04:00

Last weekend, Furry Friends Rescue sponsored a Doggie Easter Egg Hunt. Of course, we had to go! It was unseasonably warm out so we met up with a furry friend and his human companion and off we went. Cinnamon was so excited to be outdoors with lots of doggies that I swear I worked out my arms by holding her back! She is a sweet soul but loves to pull! So I apologize for the photos as they were taken trying to hold her back.

A view of the pond and the horses that live there

Cinnamon after swimming in said pond

The grounds it was hosted on is a dog groomers and resort. The owners live in this gorgeous home on the property.

Cinnamon's best buddy Finley sniffing his doggie egg treats

If you'd like to see professional photos of the days events, please click here.
http://kandcphoto.zenfolio.com

It was a great day for all!

~ Marcia

Spriing, oh spriiing

2010-03-14T11:10:00.008-04:00

After a wet and windy weekend I found myself yearning for sunshine. Just a touch of warmth on my skin, birds chirping, scents of lilac in the air. Ah, my second favorite season. So during another day of soggy, damp conditions, I prodded and begged and wore down my hubby to go shopping in the high winds and torrential like rain. Ok, ok, so I didn't really beg we headed out to lunch then went shopping. ;) I decided that I wanted to hit up Old Navy. I don't always find things there but this time was different.

Here is what I bought in my weak attempt to will Spring to life through color:

A cute little t-shirt sun dress in bright yellow.

A beautiful floral print sun dress

A black jersey dress that I have wanted for awhile.

And the best part, everything was on special! The black jersey was only $15 and the other two were $20!! Not bad!! Now I'm ready for spring when it finally decides to arrive!

~ Marcia

Happy LOVE day!

2010-02-14T14:58:00.004-05:00

Wishing you all a day filled with LOVE, compassion, understanding, caring and kindness. May you take the time to appreciate those around you, those that love you, stand by you, laugh with you, cry with you. Those that are here in life and in spirit. May today remind you of who you are and those in your life that have helped shape who it is you are. Be it near or far, on earth or in Heaven.

Happy Happy St. Valentine's Day.

~ Marcia

Snowed in

2010-02-06T22:26:00.009-05:00

We were given forewarning that snow was coming. We were supposed to get a storm, and storm it did! I don't know what the final tally was but in some areas it was up to my knees! We spent the day outside playing in it. The pup just loves snow! And I have to admit, it was beautiful. The snow on the trees, the buildings, covering cars, sidewalks. Just gorgeous. We didn't attempt to make it out today, but we did see some brave souls shoveling themselves out to hit the road. Not me. I just enjoyed being home, with a happy tired pup, snapping away pictures of natures beauty.

~ Marcia

What may this Be about?

2010-01-28T06:32:00.006-05:00

I have always wanted to add a decorative letter B in honor my hubby's last name. I have seen some great ideas and came across this gorgeous little framed B I found during my sisters visit.

We stopped at my local Kirklands. They do not dissapoint! Just look at this beauty.

Although I am leaning towards a country cottagey look, I just couldn't pass this one up. Hang on, let me zoom in on the best part, the price.

$7.99!! Boy was I doing a little happy dance!

Now, to find the perfect place to hang it...

~ Marcia

A cup full of memories

2010-01-27T06:50:00.006-05:00

This past weekend we were fortunate to have my family come down for a visit. We did our best to pack as much fun as we could in 2 days but the best part, was just being with them.

It also gave me the opportunity to give them their Christmas gifts. Many of you know that my dad passed away a year ago next month. So it was important to me to make him a part of Christmas. I personalized each mug for both sisters, each with photos of them with my dad, my dad with their respective kids, etc. They were a huge hit and I was thrilled. Of course I had to make myself one as well.

I apologize for the glare on this shot.

So at each morning coffee, I visit with my dad, relive some of my favorite memories, and see his smiling face.

~ Marcia

Reflection of a serving tray

2010-01-17T15:09:00.010-05:00

It's raining steadily in my neck of the woods. Cool and damp. A perfect day to remain indoors.

And cook. A big pot of chili.

And clean. My great grandmother's serving tray.

It was dark, and stained, and sad. A few rounds of Wright's Silver Cream, I purchased at Walmart for less than $4.00, and the tray is as beautiful as I am sure it was when my great grandmother owned it. You can even see her initials engraved in the center of the tray again..

I even used it on a silver plated serving tray I got at Goodwill for $1.99! It is shiny and beautiful and looks gorgeous.

I love stay at home Sundays.

~ Marcia

A new resolution

2010-01-04T20:28:00.007-05:00

Do you make new years resolutions? I have made a few which I hope to accomplish this year. One of which is to take some time doing the crafts that I enjoy, but somehow always put off. So during the New Years weekend I tackled something on my to-do list from last year! Cinnamon's water dish. It was gorgeously made, but the wood was unfinished and she, being the messy drinker that she is, wound up with water stains on her nice dish stand. So, finally settling on paint and style I wanted, I went to work. (Please forgive me, I forgot to take before pics)!

Anyway here's how it turned out.

I painted it white to go for a cottage-y feel and added a silver metal crown for the princess that she is. :)

Update: Since this photo was taken the crown has fallen off. Apparently the wood glue I used doesn't stand up to well to water. Ah, but it hasn't seen the last of me, I think I will try to nail it back on. There's just a small enough hole that it may just work. Wish me luck!

~Marcia

Happy New Year!!!

2010-01-02T22:12:00.002-05:00

Welcome 2010! How I have longed to meet you. Your predecessor was not kind nor a gentle acquaintance. I hope we get off on the right foot. I do hereby wish that we become great friends, and navigate this great new world we call life, together, not always seamlessly but respective of one another. I wish to be able to tell you my dreams, my worries, my goals. I hope that although we begin this new year as strangers, we end it close friends!

I pass along this wish to all of you! Wishing you a fabulous, healthy, happy, New Years!

I hope I may burden you with a quick question? When you visit my blog, do you see a background, or is it simply white? The strangest thing happened, I got a new computer and for the most part my background is missing, except for one square space. Do you see that too??

Thanks for your info!

~ Marcia

Let it snow, let it snow, let it snow

2009-12-15T06:31:00.011-05:00

This past weekend we got hit with a huge storm here on the East Coast. It was just beautiful. I love snow days where you are bundled at home with nowhere to go. We got somewhere between 16-19 inchs, depending on the reports you listenned to. Some one, (I won't mention the hairy girls name), loooooooves snow. So we spent a lot of the day outdoors! I wanted to share some photos of the snowy weekend with you.

I want to take this opportunity to wish you and yours a very Merry Christmas!

~Marcia

Winter wonderland

2009-12-07T06:24:00.015-05:00

It snowed this past weekend, tiny bits, but enough to give the goregeous landscape a glittery glow.

This grand old dame called to me. I would love to restore her.

With all the snow, even Cinnamon got into the Christmas spirit!

Happy Monday!
~Marcia

A bit of Holiday decor

2009-11-30T08:12:00.015-05:00

I hope you all had a great Thanksgiving holiday! Over the weekend I pulled out some Christmas decorations we had in storage. Being that we live in a tiny apartment I added the decorations throughout and wanted to avoid overcluttering, but I find it a bit undone, so I will continue to add more. In the meantime I just got so excited to show you what I had so far! I hope you enjoy the tour. (I think you can click on the picture to enlarge it).

Wishing you a great week!

~ Marcia

Seems like I haven't posted in forever!

2009-11-23T08:27:00.002-05:00

Hi All!

I am so behind on my blog. I feel I haven't visited or posted in the longest time! I am scurring to get Christmas gifts done. We went shopping on the weekend and the stores are already packed, no surprise there as it is almost Christmas. I love to shop but really dislike crowds so I'm trying to get things done but am finally admitting to myself that I am way behind this year. December brings two birthdays (three if you count my pups), and Christmas so getting everything organized and purchased is cumbersome. But being that it happens every year at the same time you'd think I'd be better prepared? LOL. I think this year I am not feeling the holiday mood because we only get Christmas Day off of work. I have never worked for a company that has you working 8-5 Christmas Eve and only have Christmas Day off? I think that's very Ebenezer Scrooge! Do you guys work for a company that only offers Christmas Day off? So I don't feel it this year. Sigh. I'll pull up my big girl panties and deal.
In the meantime, I did manage to put out some Christmas decorations. I will show you that in tomorrow's post, along with some great gift finds!

Wishing you all a great Holiday week!
~ Marcia

Christmas, Yes I said it.

2009-11-13T08:02:00.010-05:00

It's finally starting to feel like Fall in our area with just a touch of winter in the air. But being from the North you know we can't help but sleep with our windows cracked open ;)

So have you started your Christmas shopping? I have gotten as far as compiling a Christmas list of gift ideas. I'm late this year. Usually I like to start in October and be done by early November. I hate crowds.I love to shop but hate having to wait in long lines and even more settling on something I know the recipient will not love but having to get it because there isn't much left to choose from. So I'm planning on getting in the Christmas spirit this weekend. To start off, we're going to see this:

Disney's A Christmas Carol starring Jim Carrey.

(Photo courtesy of Disney)

I admit, I'm not a huge Jim Carrey fan but his rendition of The Grinch was amazing! I seem to like him better animated. LOL. I am so excited to see this movie!

Then its off to do some shopping! I love the Christmas Season. Things seem more magical, people a little more friendlier. Strangers seem to try to extend hospitality to those around them a bit more than usual. Trying as we might to be a "good neighbor" I think may have bite us in the butt just a tad, wouldn't you say? I mean, to omit the word Christmas from it's very holiday because we as a society are aiming to be politically correct, in my opinion has gone to far. Least we forget why it's called CHRISTmas in the first place? Schools are now closing for "winter break" and no longer "Christmas break". I am a big believer of the saying, "live and let live" but to say that we can no longer merrily say "Merry Christmas" to each other in the malls or in public places because someone within earshot may not celebrate it? I don't see it as an insult to those that don't celebrate but as a celebration for those that do. It's Christ's birthday, and for me I'm opting to keep Christ in Christmas. If that doesn't make me politically correct, I apologize, I don't mean to offend, but I do mean to celebrate the holiday for what it is.

OK, I'm done ranting! What we were talking about when I got side tracked? Oh yah, shopping! What are your favorite stores to hit up? Do you have a special go to place you know you'll find great deals, great gift ideas? I know for sure I want to visit the Disney store for my niece and nephew. Otherwise, probably the mall and the outlets. Anyone care to share their fave stores?

~ Marcia

Making due

2009-11-06T07:48:00.015-05:00

Our morning walk was a beautiful cool crisp one where the aroma of breakfasts seep through closed doors and out into the streets. That aroma brought with it a memory that I hold close but never realized it's meaning until this morning. It reminded me of days gone by. We'd all pack into the car and head over to my grandparents house where we'd meet up with aunts, uncles and our cousin and settle in for a grand holiday feast. My grandparents had 7 children, those children had childen so to say there was a lot of us is an understantment. Yet my grandparents house wasn't really a house at all, it was a two bedroom apartment where they lived for the majority of their lives as my grandparents.

Their home may not have been a house but there was no denying it a home. It was filled to the brim with love, laughter and gatherings. It was a standard issued apartment, a two bed, one bath, galley style kitchen and little patio. Yet on many a holiday or simply a Sunday, they'd add the leaf to the dinning table (if you were seated by the patio door you'd know to use the washroom before settling in, otherwise there was no getting back up)! The kids had the "kids table", which on every other day was their coffee table. Yet we didn't mind it at all! It was a grand! Grandma would deck out our table as prettily as the big table. Our napkins would be rolled into our "wine" glasses (only years later did we realize they were stemmed orange juice glasses). She would set our table with large plates, salad plates and we had the same knives, forks and spoons set up around them as the big table did. Even her olives had their own silver platter and little spoon! My grandparents hosted many a holiday and no one wined about having to share one bathroom, ok, ok so I do recall telling my sisters to hurry it up from time to time, but my point is, they made due with what they had. They opened their door to family and weren't shy about the lack of space their home offered. No one complained about having to sit at the kitchen table while others sat on the couch or piano stool. We made due, and enjoyed each others company. This realization stopped me in my tracks. I have been living a life of "when we have this...we'll be happy".

Once again, my Granny has been an invaluable part of my life and my inspiration. So from now on I promise to open my door to family and friends and invite them to gather around our little table or squeeze onto our sofa and make memories.

~ Marcia

You gotta know when to fold them...know when to walk away

2009-11-04T08:18:00.011-05:00

I know Kenny was referring to a game of cards but I think his words can be used to describe relationships as well. Sometimes we gotta stop making excuses, and see what it is we're looking at, with new eyes and an unbiased opinion. Life is to short to pretend it away. We can only hope, pray and try so much, when it ain't fixing, it's definetly broke.

Most people have assumed I was referring to my husband or an old friend, and would be behind me to change my situation, "stand up for yourself", they'd say, "be strong", they'd cheer. Yet, when I say no, it's neither of those, but the relationship I have with my mother, the reaction is always the same. Ohhh, "give her room, give her time, she needs you". Why? Why is it ok for someone to treat you with no respect, no love, no understanding, because your veins share the same blood? When is enough, really enough? And why do people think because its your parent that you need to be the one to bend? That you need to forgive, forget and keep the line of communication open? Even though every turn remains unchanged.I have tried to find the source of her dismay but to no avail. I have finally faced the truth, that lay in front of me, for years I overlooked it. She never offered to share her thoughts, her feelings or her truths. So I must accept it for what it is. The only truth I have is to decide what to do with this information. So yes, Kenny, you're right, you really need to know when to fold them, and simply walk away.

I am sorry this post is more on the personal note. I didn't intend to share this with you, but it needed out of my brain. And my friends, God love them, can easily start sending me bills as I've talked their ears off for years. ;)

Here's to change, to a new season, a new day!
~Marcia

A little procrastinating goes a long way

2009-10-26T08:03:00.007-04:00

So I've been itching to do something creative. Pull out the paints, get my hands dirty and turn something unused into something grand. OK, OK so my conscience keeps pulling me towards that half painted desk I purchased at a yard sale back in July!! I got the top painted, and a bit of the side then ran out of paint. I finally bought more (gulp), back in August! Sigh....I think I saw a notice of a procrastination party but was, yes, that's right, procrastinated to long and missed taking part. I swear, I'm my own worst enemy.

But with Fall and Halloween, and soon Christmas decorating I don't feel like painting a desk. I feel like getting into the spirit of things. No, not buying it? I'm just being lazy aren't I? I know, deep in my heart, I know that too. I also want to paint Cinnamon's wooden food stand. She is a messy drinker and there's starting to get water stains on it and it's looking yucky. But I can't for the life of me decide what color to paint it? I have a bit of red in my kitchen, should I do that? Or should I go with pink being that she's a girl, but that it wouldn't match my kitchen decor? Seriously, these are the questions that stump me! (If you have any ideas, I'd love to hear them. I'm going for the country cottage-y look).

OK, so back to my half done desk. I'm posting a very embarrassing picture, just to hold myself accountable. I hope you talented ladies can help keep me in line!

P.S. Yes, my goal is to eventually paint the chair as well and get a cushion for it.

Wishing you a great week!

~ Marcia

My Husband Rocks -

2009-10-23T08:52:00.005-04:00

I wanted to participate in My Husband Rocks Friday Parties presented by Katey Lyn over at The Great Adventure. I really like this idea as it makes one focus on the good of their partner and not the bad as it is so easy to do. My hubby rocks because he somehow knows when grief visits me during the night. He was fast asleep, snoring softly and yet I felt his hand reach for mine as tears silently rolled down my cheeks. How could he know I needed his touch? It amazes me that somewhere in his soul he knew I needed him. To me, that rocks.

For this post I wanted to add a photo of my handsome hubby. This is one of my favorites. He is with a baby Cinnamon a couple of months after we brought her home. Too cute right?

Wishing you all a great weekend!!

~Marcia

Thrifty heirloom find

2009-10-21T07:58:00.013-04:00

As I got dressed yesterday I realized I hadn't shown you my most recent heirloom. Shame on me! How can an heirloom be recent you ask? Well, one day this past summer my MIL went out on one of our most enjoyed adventures. Rummage sales. I was running late because our car was at the shop but she saw this gorgeous pendent and snatched it up right away. It was all of .50 cents. She knows me well, and knew I would love it.

The photo doesn't do it justice. It is a rose, encircled by a jeweled frame. Atop sits a large bow. It's gorgeous.

THEN she turned it over.

Try as I might, I could not for the life of me, get a photo of the inscription. But it is beautiful. It's inscription was beautiful. It's meaning to me was so precious. If you have read my blog before you know that I adore my grandma. She has recently passed on but this piece of jewelry is exactly what I would have purchased for her. It's inscription reads "Grandmother, I love you." The seller, was a young woman who had inherited all her grandma's jewelry and had kept what she wanted and was selling off what she didn't. She didn't know where the pendent came from.

When I arrived to the rummage sale we quickly hightailed it back to the girls booth, and I found a matching necklace for my new found heirloom. It's price, was a matching .50 cents. That day I received a .50 cent pendent and purchased a .50 cent necklace. But in all honesty, it's priceless.

~ Marcia

Comfort foods

2009-10-19T07:46:00.012-04:00

Hi All!

I hope you had a warm weekend! It was a rainy windy one where I live, but we didn't have to utter the horrible four letter word...s.n.o.w. Hubby and I are from the North, born and raised but one distinct difference between us, he looooves winter. I loathe it. Ok, so loathe is a strong word but I highly dislike it. Except for when it's big fat snowflakes, and my whole family is gathered safe and sound around the fireplace all cozy and warm. Oh, and for the other reason that tornadoes are not common in winter. I have a large fear of them, but that's a whole other post.

Anywho, since hubby and I are northerns we sleep with the window cracked open, even on nights with frost warnings! Even Cinnamon loves snow. But as I said, all we got was rain. It made for the perfect weekend of cooking and watching Football (hubby) and reading CountryLiving magazine (me).

So, I made some chili and as a foolish girl that I am, forgot all about the pics. Sorry. But I also made a roast in our crocpot. How we got along without it is beyond me. I just add my ingredients then kick back on the couch with my cup of joe and my magazine. Ahh, the life. The picture is kinda hard to see and we didn't eat it for supper cuz I like to cook it on slow for 9hrs. It'll be our lunches during the work week.

Then we bought us a little snack ;)

Isn't the box cute? The Pillsbury marketing people are genusies, it sure got my attention! And it came out sooo goood too! Yum!!

I hope you had a cozy weekend too.
~ Marcia

Christmas lists

2009-10-14T07:53:00.005-04:00

I've been slow to start the week. It's been cooling off in my neck of the woods, so before work I have enjoyed a good book and a cup of joe. My job has me spending 8.5hrs in front of the computer, so to be away from it before work begins was a nice little reprieve. But you know I couldn't stay away for long!

This weekend we had a visit from my father in-laws family. It was very nice! We took them around shopping and I just had to get these gloves! I had seen them before back in August but kept putting them off till now. For the life of me I thought I'd only get away with wearing them till Halloween, my mind seemed to register that they were pumpkins, until I wore them for the first time and finally realized they are snowmen. Aren't they cute?

Of course most stores had Halloween and Christmas displays side by side. No wonder we have a hard time living in the "now". But I have to admit, I'm itching to start shopping! The hardest person to buy for is my hubby. He just doesn't seem to want anything. So, really, let's put it out on the table. How soon do you buy gifts? Even scoping them out? Or making a list of everyone you wish to buy for and putting some ideas beside each name? C'mon now, you can tell me, we're all friends here. Ok, ok, I'll go first. I tend to buy gifts, as early as August, pack them away and then completely forget they are there! LOL. This has happened to me a couple of times. I don't like to buy just anything. I like to buy something that I really think that person will love. So it's your turn, I promise, no judging....when do you start Christmas shopping?

~ Marcia

2009-10-09T07:50:00.012-04:00

Ms. Donna (she doesn't go by Ms. Donna, I just call her that, hope she doesn't mind!) and I have been chatting back and forth about our beloved pets. She is a great lover of animals and has a very sweet blog all about her home, family and pets, you can visit her here. Her cherished Mr. O'Malley looks much like my Cinnamon and you know we chatted a bit about that. She is a very sweet lady and I love how she dedicates apart of her blog to the homeless animals who are searching for forever homes. How sweet is that?!
If you have never owned a pet you have not felt unconditional love. They just love you, faults and all. They don't care how bad your morning breath is when they sneak in for a kiss. They don't care if you snap at them after having a bad day at work. They don't care if your a little bloated, or your having a bad hair day. All they know is to love you. And to take care of you the best they know how.
Today marks the 8 month anniversary of my protective, all knowing, hard working, sarcastic, fun loving, cherished dad's passing. It is still so fresh and yet seems like a million years ago.

Some days I can laugh and feel at peace, others, I realize he's gone and not coming back and the world around me shatters all over again. My hubby is a great sounding board, gives soulful hugs and encouraging words. But my pets, well, they just know how to be. My kitty Roscoe will come and sit on my lap and rub his head around my hand so I have to pet him through the tears. And Cinnamon, she does not like it when her humans are hurting. No siree. She will follow me and put her head on my lap or lay next to me and give kisses. Or more often then not, she will just remain beside me, just letting me know I'm not alone.

Now I know they can't know why I'm upset, but I'm not sure that even matters. They just know I am upset and they want to take the best care of me as they can. Animals are amazing and intuiative and loving and I'm grateful for having them in my life. I hope you get to know the love of an animal.
~Marcia

Furry love

2009-10-07T07:53:00.007-04:00

Each morning before work I grab my cup of coffee and visit with my blog friends and just see what's going on in everyone's corner of the world. I stopped by Joanne's page over at My little cottage in the making. She tells great stories of her travels through different cities and she goes on goose bumping ghost tours! I just love her blog and love to see what new travels she's been up to. Today I read her post as well as an earlier post about a 5K walk for animals that she participated in. Now, I knew I liked her, but to take time out of your life and walk 5k to support your local SPCA, well, what can I say, I like her even more now!

Both my pets are rescues. I'm not saying this to gloat or toot my own horn, but when I was in search of an animal I went to the vet's office and adopted my kitty and the local animal shelter for our pup. My kitty was abandoned, after he was born the owners of his Momma opened their apartment door and let both my Roscoe and his brother out to fend for themselves. Apparently they wandered the apartment complex for a couple of weeks before someone brought them into the vet. Can you imagine how cruel that is? And Cinnamon, well she was born in December, during a very deep cold snap. Her Momma was abandoned to the outside to have her litter. She was so malnourished that she was not producing any milk to feed her pups. Some kind hearted soul drove by and saw them huddled together on the side of their owners property and brought them into the shelter. All pups and Momma were adopted! Now they live the life of luxury.

I think we need to take responsibility for the animals we own, and the ones that need our help. If you've read my blog before you'll know that my hubby and I have found 3 abandoned kittens this past summer. We took the first two who were estimated at being 5 days old to the humane society. Because they were so little and needed feedings every 2 hours, they told me they would have to be put to sleep. Not because they were cruel at the humane society but because they literaly had cat cages stacked one on top of the other from floor to ceiling. Did someone own these kittens? No, they were most probably strays, but someone must've owned the mother of the cat who had these kittens. At one time they must've been someone's pet who wasn't spayed and the cycle just goes on and on. It's not the kittys fault. (By the way, I refused to let two adorable kittens be put to sleep because of my decision, so we were lucky enough to find a cat lover who had the space and time to feed them. Yay)! I just think we need to take responsiblity of our animals and care for them the best we can. So thanks to you Joanne for being apart of something so fantastic! You've inspired me and I hope to find more ways to help our furry friends.

Have a great day all!
~ Marcia

A little Fall Vignette

2009-10-05T07:41:00.011-04:00

I haven't really added much for Fall, even though it is by far my favorite season! I don't know why really, perhaps it's because of our tiny space and keeping extra items I'd have to store when not in use, puts a damper on the decorating. But I have added a few little things in our home.

Just a little touch of Fall as you walk into our front foyer. Do you like the little pumpkin's face? I'm such a non drawer but I think he came out pretty good! Besides, how badly can you mess up a triangle? LOL.

Here's another look beside my front table. Psst, the blue blanket on the couch is because we have a spoiled pup as we've established before. ;)

A sweet little face to put a tealight in.

A pumpkin spice candle that I put in my bathroom tray. Did I tell you I purchased that tray at the dollar store? I know it isn't high quality but it sure looks pretty and was only a $1!

This little sign I keep up all year round. It hangs in my kitchen and I love what it says.
I did also manage to snag a few Fall sweaters. I'll show you those another day. Have a great day!
~ Marcia

I'm back baby!

2009-10-02T07:59:00.010-04:00

I have returned to the world beyond my front door! It is amazing how quickly you miss the access to the web when you don't have it for a couple of days. So I'm back, still fixing up the computer to add things we once had but no more shutting down needlessly. I thought I'd share some of my favorite pictures for today's post. I hope you all have a great weekend! Here it's starting to really feel like Fall! Loving it!

The last picture was taken as I was getting ready for work. I walked into our bedroom and there lay Cinnamon, sad looking and distraught. It breaks my heart to leave her each morning. My hubby says she is waaay to spoiled as it is but look at that face! How can you leave that face and not feel bad? LOL. On a side note, we really need new sheets and a fancier comforter but I don't dare do it since her laying on our bed is a routine. And honestly, I'd rather feel her beside me than a fancy quilt.

Happy weekend all!!

~Marcia

A little time away

2009-09-25T09:11:00.002-04:00

Hi All!

Normally Friday I particpiate in the great "My Husband Rocks" theme. But today I just wanted to take a few minutes to let you know that my little laptop here is going in for surgery. Shhhh, I've told her it won't hurt a bit, just gettin' her memory erased, that's all. ;) I am hoping to be back with you guys on Monday. With no laptop and access to the great wide world around me, I'm hoping to take sometime and Fall up my decor and hopefully get crafty.

Wishing you a great weekend!
~ Marcia

It's Fall Y'all!

2009-09-22T08:28:00.010-04:00

Oh, how I've missed you! My computer is still not my friend, so I will hastily set up this blog post in hopes that I can let the enemy that be "Internet Explorer has encountered a problem and needs to close" at bay!

Can you believe today is the first day of Fall! Ohhh how I loooove me some Fall. The lovely scented candles, the cool breeze through the open windows as we sleep, the crisp air during our nightly walks, the frizz that humidity brought my hair seems to have found a new interest and has left us alone. *Sigh* Fall and Spring are my absolute favorite seasons. How about you?

Well, last week we headed over to our local fair. It was breezy, which was nice, but quickly became hoooot. I took a few pics. Hope you enjoy. Oh, did I tell you I've missed you?

The Haunted House....Woooooooo...Only thing scary was the price! There was nothing in that tour besides painted black walls. Aw, well. Gotta love the fair.

My new wheels, cuz you know that's how I'd roll.

A view from ato the ferris wheel. Did I mention I am afraid of heights? Wasn't so fun.

I thought he was so cute! I love his fuzzy face.

~ Marcia

Arrrrggggh!!

2009-09-15T08:20:00.001-04:00

I wanted to share with you our weekend trip to the fair, but Internet Explorer just kicked me out while in the middle of my blog!!

I'm writing you this from Firefox. We ran a scan last night and found 3 trojan horses! But apparently that was cleaned up so I don't know why Internet Explorer just freezes and kicks me out?! Any computer sawvy people out there? Anyone? Help!

Even Firefox just slows to a crawl and then comes back with Not Responding. Arggggggh. Heeheeeheehooooo, breath, think happy thoughts....don't think of throwing the computer out the window....

My Husband Rocks!

2009-09-11T07:50:00.007-04:00

My husband rocks because he allows me carte blanche, in decorating our home. It has become a reflection of who I am, what I love and the people I love. It is very important for me to be surrounded in things I find calming, soothing and beautiful. Since I much prefer the thrill of the hunt most of what I own came from local thrift shops and yard sales. (Sorry future grandchildren, although I don't forsee any fighting over the will! LOL).

Also, he not only understands, but feeds my love of candles. When its raining, or snowing or just wet and dark out I love, love, love to light candles. I tend to prefer the fall scented ones but anyone ol' tealight will do.

This gorgeous glass candle was on the expensive side at $20 from Party Lite. But my MIL bought it for me and I just love it! It glows and the colored glass reflects off the walls.

Ok, so the "Kindness Matters" isn't a real candle but the little plastic wick looks like one! It was $3.99 at The Christmas Tree Shops. LOVE it. The little red candle beside it, honestly, have no idea where I got it. But I use it all the time! The one behind it is a candle warmer. I loooove it and use it as it warms my MacIntosh Apple Waffers. Can't find them anywhere anymore.

I don't typically light this candle, but the base was from my favorite Goodwill store in Hibbing, MN. It cost all of .50 cents!

Also a Goodwill purchase. It was $1 top and bottom! I couldn't figure out why the inside was painted and not the outside. When I first lit it I was pleasantly surprised. I love this candle.

These are just some of my candle collection. It makes me smile to think when he married me, he married my collections. :)

Wishing you a great weekend.

~Marcia

All good things must come to an end....

2009-09-08T08:21:00.009-04:00

I hope you had a great Labor Day Weekend! To me, nothing beats sneaking in another day off when typically you should be at work. Hubby and I had a great weekend. We tackled some house work, did our usual chores, spent a lot of time outdoors which made our pup thrilled!

Hubby even agreed to go yard saling with me. He doesn't love it but he's a good sport about it, as long as somewhere in there he gets fed. LOL. I did snag a few great finds.

I like to make homemade laundry detergent and was looking for a scooper. That little one cost me $1. The Christmas decor were .25 cents each, the little heart shaped stool was $1, not sure what I'll do with it yet. But my favorite find had to be the quilted purse. There was no price on it but the guy suggested $1 I almost fell over! I love, love, love it! I had seen some in those same colors for $60 in the store but didn't want to spend that much. So this find really made my weekend.

We visited with family.

Aren't these masks a hoot! Hubby saw them at our fav shop, The Christmas Tree Shops and I believe they are meant as wall decor but he put it up to his face and I happened to have the camera. Then we got my in-laws in on the act! What a family, eh?

On the morning of having to go back to work I must admit I do admire you all who get to work from home. Sigh. I hope to one day but for now I must get myself presentable and head on back into a short (yay)! work week.

Hoping you had a great holiday weekend!

~ Marcia

My Husband Rocks!

2009-09-04T08:00:00.005-04:00

Why? Let me tell you. Because he loves me. Even when I complain how life should be, he loves me. Even when I am crabby, and boy do I dislike mornings, he still loves me. Even when I contemplate an early fate for my loving, independent, pee ridden kitty, he tells me how I will regret it and how putting a healthy animal to sleep just isn't right. He accepts the stray kittens we've found and pays for feeding bottles and formula so they can eat and then helps me find them good homes. He even fights me to feed them!

Don't get me wrong, we can have some serious fights! His sun sign is the crab, mine's the ram, can you see where this is going? :) But when it's all said and done, we're of the same cloth. We love our families, love our pets, love to spend time together. One of my favorites is taking our pup on long walks. We talk about anything random, anything serious or anything silly. At the end of the day what is important to me, becomes important to him and vice versa. I adore my Grandma. She was ill and it was very important to me that they meet before she passed. He flew to Montreal to meet her, and although life had taken her voice she hugged and patted him on the back. She was pleased to have met him and my heart was overjoyed. Two people I truly love were meeting. He may come off as a rough and tough kinda guy and although I wouldn't want to be one of his opponents, he is loving, and caring and sensitive. He is a great man and he definitely rocks!

Wishing you all a great long weekend! I think we'll take the pup on a hike tomorrow. :)

Happy Labor Day Weekend!

~Marcia

Sigh...

2009-09-02T07:56:00.004-04:00

Have you ever had the experience, where you hear about someone you went to school with, not someone you were real close to, but come to find out just how very successful they have become? Do you ever wonder, Gosh, we went to the same school, did any of those smarts rub off on me? Do you ever stop to think, "Hmm, in the last bleep years since I've seen this person, what have I done with my life"?

So here I am, nearly 10:00 pm last night, replaying the last 10ish or so years in my mind, trying to mentally check off the things I have always wanted to accomplish. (In all honesty, I went to bed out of sheer exhaustion from trying to rack the brain and determined to be more of a goal getter)!

Let's see, career wise it's always been, working for the man. Getting paid okay, and putting in my hours. Please do not read this as a whine, ok, ok, I re-read it and can see where you can call it that. But although I am happy with the money I have at pay day I am in a job that does not stimulate or sustain me. I have not held a job that I am truly passionate about. I have been living my life in a, "when I get older I hope to do this" sorta way.

When I sat back and realized where I am is not truly (I'm talking career wise) where I want to be, I know now that there are things I really need to do to be happy. I'm not talking big money either, it has never been my goal (I love Goodwill to much for that)! So I thought long about what I really love and these are the things that came to mind. Writing, being home, animals, decorating, repurposing household items, human history (people who've come before us, how they lived, what issues they faced). How would this relate to a carreer? I have no idea!

So, let me ask you, up until now, are you satisifed with how your lives have led? Granted there are things in our lives we cannot control, but I'm talking the things we can. What are your proudest accomplishments? What can you check off you bucket list?

~ Marcia

Just call us that cat whisperer....

2009-08-31T09:05:00.014-04:00

Yesterday morning Cinnamon and I took our daily walk around our apartment complex and lo and behold we hear a little crying. We head over to investigate and I call out, "here kitty kitty kitty". And to our amazement this little black and orange kitty with blue eyes comes stumbling out of the bush. She was walking like she was drunk! Stumbling then falling but walked right up to Cinnamon and snuggled against her nose! She was all alone and looked to be a few weeks old. This is the second time in a month that Cinnamon and I find abandoned kittens! (See a couple of posts back for the others we found)!
We picked up the kitty and ran back home to tell my hubby look what we found. He insists that we go looking for them but honestly we don't! LOL.

We couldn't keep her, my Roscoe was not impressed with the idea. He hissed and growled but Cinnamon was such a sweet mommy! She licked and laid down and let the kitty crawl all over her. We found her a home right away and I am thrilled to have helped this little baby girl survive. In all honesty, logic aside, I do wish the lady would call and say she has to return her to us. :(

CAUTION!! The following pics are to cute for words!

Wishing you all a great week!

~Marcia

Show Us Your Roosters Party!!

2009-08-28T06:03:00.014-04:00

Today I am participating in Bella Vista's Show us your Rooster's Party!! I am a rooster enthusiast. I love, LOVE roosters! I have shared my collection with you before but I jumped at the chance to do it again! So without further adieu here are my roosters!

(Ok, so the live one isn't technically "mine" but I thought I'd share his beauty with you. And fine I think there may be a chicken in among the roosters.... ;)

Thanks Barb for giving us the chance to share our love of Roosters!

Happy weekend all!

~Marcia

Momma's going crazy

2009-08-25T08:11:00.006-04:00

Doesn't he just look like he's got attitude?

I've introduced Roscoe to you before and gave you some insight into how we first met. Roscoe is a sweet soul but the little 6 lb bugger shows his disdain by peeing on carpet! For the past 9 years I have ripped out carpet, locked him in bathrooms while I was at work, apologized to whomever's house we stayed at when he'd pee. If there was no carpet he chose my bed. Right smack on my side by the pillow. If you have not smelled stale cat pee, you cannot imagine the lingering and immortal scent that fills your nostrils. Then as soon as he starts it he stops. There's pee in his litter box. I am thrilled! I do a happy dance and we go on with our lives. Then BAM he's back at it.

I am renting at the moment and despite how I have fantasized about it, I can't rip up this carpet. Over the years I have spent so much money on products claiming to remove the odors that I should've taken stocks out in their companies. I have not found ONE product that works as it claims until I read a review on http://www.petco.com/ . This is called Stink Free, the photo, is courtesy of petco.com

I am in looooove. It does exactly as it says it does, it removes the odor instantly! I am in no way affiliated with petco or this product, but if I can point another cat owner in the right direction I am happy to. Anyway, this product works so good, that he's taken to peeing outside of his one little "area". I have smelt pee in front of the couch, under my computer desk. We don't even let him in our room for fear he'll pee in there. You should know that he's on a special food called CD which is for cats that are prone to crystals. We just took him to the vet to see if he has crystals which he doesn't but he is on meds for a urine infection. Should I change his litter? Is he not happy?

Right now I've resorted to locking him in the bathroom while we're at work and when we come home there's pee in his litter! But at night as I was watching him he'll pee on the carpet! So I wonder, am I doing right by locking him in the daytime? Is he retaliating by peeing during the night? I have never hit him or put his nose in it, but last night I sprayed him with the water container and he ran and turned his back to me. I am at my ropes end. I love this animal but don't know what else to do for him. I don't want to put him down and I know if I give him to a cat shelter he will just live out his life in a cage. Who would take in a cat that has a history of peeing outside his box?

If anyone has any suggestions I would love to hear them! My sanity thanks you, my carpet thanks you, my kittys happiness thanks you and my marriage thanks you!

~ Marcia

Onto another week..

2009-08-24T08:25:00.014-04:00

It always amazes me just how quickly the weekend flies by. We didn't do too much besides some visiting and errands. But I did manage to take a few pictures along the way and wanted to show you some of our sights this past weekend. Please excuse the date on the photos. I did not register the date and it automatically brings it automates the date. Haven't mastered how to remove it completely yet...

A side view of a gorgeous garage.

A country farmhouse. Don't you just love the front porch?

A view of the corn stalks. They are beautiful!

An old, forgotten cemetery that someone erracted a fence around. We wanted to get a closer look but it now sits at the entrance of a private farm.

Another beautiful home.

This is the backyard of the home above. Isn't it gorgeous? You may need to click on the picture to get the full effect.

Sorry for the graining picture, I was in a moving vehicle. But I always admired this home and wanted to show you its beauty. The picture does not do it justice.

I hope you had a great weekend!

~ Marcia

My Husband Rocks!

2009-08-21T09:02:00.006-04:00

For anyone that knows us, knows that we long to be parents. Although we adore our rescued fur babies, we hope that God will give us the fur less kind one day soon. My ultimate dream is to be a stay at home mom. To raise our children ourselves. As we stand right now, that would not be an option. We could afford to have a baby but soon after I would have to return to work and hand that little precious life over to someone else to care for all day. Although we luckily know that we can undoubtedly count on my in laws and know that the baby would be so very loved and cared for, it is not the same as experiencing the babies firsts ourselves.

So, what does this have to do with my husband rocking? Well, he knows my dreams, and knows our situation and despite working a full 8 hour shift already, (which doesn't include the 2 hours of driving each day) he has found a course that he could enroll in which would then allow him a higher salary! As it stands right now he gets up at 4am for work and doesn't come home until 3:30 pm. He then makes my lunch, feeds our pets, takes the pup out for walks and now wants to add to his schedule so we can afford to be a single income family and I could realize my dream of being a stay at home mom.

He has already been granted an apprenticeship and is even the schools number one choice! Yet the economy has affected the apprenticeship and we do not know if or when it will start. So he decided on a secondary option, which is adding a course to his already full work day. He has decided to give up simple luxuries (as sleep) so he can provide better for our family. This is why I think my hubby rocks!

He will be a great dad. If there is any indication by my niece's love for him!

~ Marcia

Lookie lookie what I found

2009-08-17T08:00:00.010-04:00

We planned a very relaxed weekend. Saturday we'd get up, go get our groceries, take the pup out for long walks and maybe check out what's happening around our town later in the evening. It just goes to show no matter how nicely packaged and proper we plan our days, life has it's own way of deciding itself for you.

Friday night on our evening walk, we passed by a dense bush in front of a neighbors porch. As we walked by we heard rather loud meowing. We could tell it was a kitten but we thought it was waiting it's momma and kept on for home. Saturday morning I took the pup out for her morning walk and decided to check back on the dense bush. Sure enough, as I got closer the mewoing started up again. It was coming from inside a dense, prickly bush. Cinnamon and I could not see the kitty but then we heard a very meek meow a little further away from the bush. I walked over to investigate and sprawled out on the dirt was the tinest little thing I ever did see. His eyes were still closed and for a second I thought it was a mouse! I scooped him up in my arms, scanning the area for an angry momma cat, but she was no where to be found. Cinnamon and I all but ran for home to show hubby what we found. We wrapped up the wet little guy in face cloths and put him in a shoe box then we went back to get his brother. He was very sweet but you could see he was agitated and hungry. When we got back a visiting passerbye held the prickly bush back so I could scan the area for his sibling as hubby held onto our first little guy. Sure enough, there was a second kitten, a lot larger than the first, but he too had his eyes closed. When I scooped him up and put him in the shoebox with his brother the two just curled up together and were instantly comforted.

I have never seen anything so small in all my life. We knew they must be hungry but it was still rather early and the local PetSmart was still closed. So we drove over to our vet and purchased a can of kittens milk and some syringes and fed the little guys. The chubby one (which we've called Jethero) ate much better than his brother Oreo. (They are inverted skunks, with the white strips going down their bellies instead of their backs)! We took them to the Humane Society thinking we were doing them the best possible service as we both work and can't stay home to bottle feed them every two hours. The nice gentelmen that worked there kindly told me that they would no doubt be euthanized as they had no foster homes to bottle feed them. I stood there crying, still in my pj's and bed head and non brushed teeth (I really didn't care at this point but looking back I do feel bad for everyone I encountered), and refused to sign them over to a certain death. The manager saw my fear, anger and frustration and promised she'd do everything her in power to save them and promptly put them on a heating pad and fed them some more. (It was 88 degrees and humid, I had no idea they'd be cold)!

When we got back home we had a call from my MIL who's friend told her she'd gladly take them and care for them. She knew how to bottle feed kittens as she'd done it many times before. So back to the Humane Society hubby goes, hoping against hope that the babies would still be alive. I must've paced a new groove in the carpeting until he came back 10 minutes later (it's right down our street) with the well fed and warm kittens. We took them over to the girl that would care for them. Even though I knew they would be well taken care of and loved, I cried when I had to say goodbye. She offered to return Oreo, the tiny kitty that I found out in the dirt. I so want to take him but am not sure if I want to seperate him from his brother so we will see. She promised me pictures and I will even ask if I can visit them at the farm (no joke, it's a real farm)! where they will live.

Before letting them go I snapped some pics like every proud Momma does. Please excuse the flash and despite my best intentions they were camera shy.

The camera really does add 10 pounds! They look so big but were only a few ounces each.

See what a chunky monkey Jethero is? He's the one on the right. He's so much bigger than his brother Oreo!
I know they are in good hands and will be well cared for and despite only having them a few hours I miss them terribly. I do believe you are tested in your day to day life and I hope I passed God's test.

~ Marcia

My Husband Rocks Friday

2009-08-14T08:28:00.010-04:00

I have just begun following KatyLin over at the great adventure who has a great Friday blog dedicated to her hubby and why she thinks he rocks. I jumped at the chance to write about my hubby and all the good he brings me and our marriage. It is very easy to focus on the negatives and I, am no exception. So this was a great way for me to focus on the positives and give you a glimpse into the great man that he is. Here's a few snippets:

He loves animals. He gets very upset when there is a story about animal abuse.

He has accepted my love of being thrifty. And doesn't even flinch when I find great deals like this insulated, material lunch bag. I have seen them for $40 and up, this one was a steal at $3.99!

He humors me while I snap away pictures as he's driving.

He cries with me over the loss of my dad and promises we'll all be together again.

Those are just some of the reasons why I love this man. It isn't always easy, but it's always real.

~ Marcia

A mid week report

2009-08-12T09:48:00.003-04:00

I cannot believe it's already Wednesday! It has been very humid in my part of the world lately. My bones love it, my hair, not so much. LOL. Each morning upon waking, I take the pup for a walk all around the grounds. It takes us about 20 mins if she doesn't do to much sniffing. Then we come home, have breakfast and relax a bit. But lately she's been really antsy to get back out there, so for the past two mornings I take her out again before work and throw the ball around with her. This passes her out until Hubby gets home to let her out again.

Yesterday morning before work I became very domesticated! :) I made chicken parmessean so Hubby could just heat it up for supper, (my hours are until 8pm so we don't get to eat meals together. He's been great about preparing me lunches for work so I wanted to repay the favor). Then I made homemade chicken noodle soup! It is a personal favorite. I took some for lunch despite the hot humid temps. It is so cold in the office so I think it'll be just fine.

This weekend is pay week. Woo hoo! I love lining up the bills I have to pay and ticking them off. I know, it's strange. We are under a ton of bills but I want to reinstate the date night I started and quickly went by the way side. So I'm trying to come up with any plans we can do that doesn't cost to much. Do you have any favorite date ideas you don't mind sharing?

~ Marcia

Happy Monday!

2009-08-10T08:37:00.005-04:00

Sigh, how quickly the weekend goes. I can't complain though, I had a great one. Hubby and I spent Saturday at home and took the pup out for 3 walks! On our last one we met up with other couples and their pups. Took them off leash to play and we stood around getting to know our neighbors. We spent 3 hours outside chatting while the dogs played. It was fantastic! I love impromptu get togethers. Then we went home and watched The Good Witch, a
Hallmark Channel original movie. I love Catherine Bell from Army Wives, but truly prefer her as a good witch. The home featured in this movie was called Grey House and was so beautiful and enchanting. On Sunday we were to meet up with everyone from our "pup walk" the night before over by the pool but because it was cloudy and raining on and off no one showed. So hubby and I had the pool to ourselves. We then met up with my in-laws for lunch at Chili's. Yummm. Then a bit of window shopping. We stopped in at one of our favorite stores, The Christmas Tree Shops. Don't let the name fool you, they have tons of things that have nothing to do with Christmas. But yesterday we found that, they already have taken out their Christmas goods! I love Christmas and I truly love getting a head start on gifts, but I think August is a bit crazy to pull out the Christmas decor. I really dislike living so far out in the future. Why not celebrate the last month of summer? I know companies like to make a sale so I guess I understand. They did have some great Fall finds too and so inexpensive! Gotta love that! Then last night was part two of The Good Witch movie, it was the Good Witch's Garden. I really hope they make a third installement.

Wishing you a great week!

~ Marcia

My Husband Rocks!!! - 1st Friday

2009-08-07T08:50:00.010-04:00

KatyLin over at The Great Adventure is having a My Husband Rocks party every Friday! Being a newlywed myself (a little over 2 years) and hearing how marriage has gotten a bad rap lately I wanted to join in this great party myself! So, each Friday I will participate in her My Husband Rocks theme party and tell you great gals, why hubby of mine is a great man :)

Let's go back to the beginning shall we. We met while hubby lived in Minnesota and I in Montreal, Canada. My sister and I went along with her then boyfriend to visit his friend who had moved from Canada to Minnesota after he met and fell in love with his new wife. His friend and new wife are now my in laws! (Stick with me, it gets less confusing). When my sis and I first met my future in laws we all hit it off right away. Then in walks her son. He wore dark wash jeans, a black sleeves tee, a black bandana hiding his shoulder length hair that was tied in a tight ponytail. He just looked mean. My sister (Jen), and I were both intimidated. Then, he spoke. He had us laughing it up right away! We sang kareoke, (us, horribly off key, he and my father in law, neglected to tell us they were great)! Cruel joke I tell you! We went to a block party and were inseperable. After day 3 I didn't want to leave. I asked him what do we do from here, he said, he wanted to start dating exclusively. I honestly didn't think I'd hear from him again, but after driving 19 hours back home, I had a voice message saying he missed me. Then I had an email. He called me every single day, sent me emails and was more consistent than the guys I dated locally. He had me after day 3.

We soon found ourselves in a long distance relationship. The words of caution and "truth" (as some called it) found its way into our daily lives. I got a lot of "I bet he's cheating","Can't you find someone here"?, "Are you that lonely that you have to go all the way to MN for a man"? They all said it was out of love, but it was hurtful and mean. He, was not above it either. His were mostly about how I was only dating him to get into the US, how I too must have been unfaithful, how could he trust me? It was a hard time to remain happy. Each family gathering or party we attended we were alone. It was a rough time but we stuck it out. We'd visit every 3 months it seemed and talked about everything. After dating for a year we decided that one of us would have to move. So I sold my condo, quit my job, packed up my house and kitty and got married. I thought my friends and family had realized this would be the next step, but I soon figured out they thought this was all a phase. My moving was met with mixed reactions. But we followed our hearts and got married. Has it always been easy? No. Do I ever regret it? Not at all. I miss that I can't hop in the car and be at my sisters homes, but I don't regret marrying this handsome man at all. It is easier to see the mountains we are facing that we forget to turn around and see the valley we just crossed, together.

My handsome hubby in one of many car shots I steal of him :)

~ Marcia

An angel with fur

2009-08-06T08:33:00.011-04:00

A couple of days ago I shared with you my sweet pup Cinnamon. Today I thought I'd introduce my other furbaby. He too is a rescue animal, a long haired tabby that I adopted when he was just 4 weeks old. His owners cat had kittens, and decided they didn't want them so they opened their apartment door and let these two little defenseless and scared kitties out into their building to fend for themselves. Roscoe has always been a little jumpy and I wonder if that's due to his days of hearing doors slamming and having no where to go. He is a sweet soul this little one. I have had him before I met hubby, when I was living with my sister and her kitty, then it was just the two of us in our own condo. He had his own pillow and would sleep with me at night. I miss that, he doesn't sleep with me anymore. I guess the bed is too full now with hubby and Cinnamon.

Roscoe loves to drink slowing dripping water out of the faucet.

He isn't thrilled about getting his fur shaven, in fact, we do it over a couple of days so as not to stress him. But you can bet he struts his stuff after he's had a nice new haircut!

He likes to let us think he has no time for the dog, but we've seen him run up to her to play and then run away.

I think he cost me $20.00 and despite his urinary infection and his aversion to carpeting, he is the best investment I have ever made. He is a sweet soul that loves no matter how crabby you are or how long you've been away from home. He will cuddle with me when I'm down and just be there for me. It's amazing what animals know despite speaking any language.

I hope if you decide to bring an animal home you will consider adopting one from a shelter. They are just waiting for someone to give their love to.

~ Marcia

A dog day..

2009-08-04T10:52:00.011-04:00

I have a doctors appointment later on in the day and since I work in the early afternoon I've decided to take the day off. The best part? It's the first time I qualify for a paid day off! Wooo hoo! I love days where I'm not supposed to be home and here I am, enjoying the sunshine and warmth. I am going to take the pup out to play ball as she's laying on the floor with her head on the windowsill just anxiously looking outside. She is such a sweet girl. I am so proud of her.Does that sound strange, to be proud of your dog? It may, yet I truly am! She greets people with a wagging tail and a little whine. She is so sweet with little kids and my heart melts when I watch a neighbor girl rubbing Cinnamon's head and chatting away with her. She loves other dogs and plays well with her little friends Bentley and Harley and her cousin Sam. She loves to lay on the bed and snuggle with us. She loves to chase her brother Roscoe who antagonizes her and then runs away!

She is a rescue pup, who was born on a cold December morning in freezing temperatures and left outside with her mom and siblings. The mom was so malnourished that she couldn't produce any milk! I can't imagine how cold hearted some people can be. The good news was that humane society rescued them all and found them all good homes. We were told she was a husky/shepherd mix but lately many people stop to ask us if she's part grey hound. We really don't know. All we do know for certain is that she has been the best dog we could have ever had been lucky enough to have. She does not have an aggressive bone in her body. I can put my hand in her food bowl while she eats, my 2 year old niece can sit on her, lay down on her and even walk her on a lead! I am a big promotor of rescue animals. There are tons of mixed breeds that need a loving and happy home and they return the love tenfold, I can testify to that! I thought I'd share some of my favorite pics of our special girl.

Here she is with her cousin Sam. I think they met that same day and got along great! Sam too is a sweet soul.

She loves to try out new trails

Her favorite times are when the family is all together. (Really, we aren't hurting her just trying to get her to stand on the log, it didn't work out ).

She loves to "swim" as long as her feet are firmly planted on the ground.

And she loves to curl up on the couch, let out a big sigh and sleep.

Whether you're a dog or cat, or fish, or ferret, or bird lover, I hope you experience the unconditional love only an animal can give you. :)

~ Marcia

New blog layout

2009-08-02T22:08:00.003-04:00

I have been playing around with a new blog layout, got frustrated and didn't continue. I emailed Paisley Cat and asked endless questions. She was so sweet and patiently answered all my questions. Well this weekend I decided to try it again. I will not admit to the hours I spent trying to figure things out, (even with detailed directions), but I found this fantastic blog layout and header and was in love!

If you feel like sprucing up your blog, or just seeing what else is out there, please head over to PasileyCat .

Thanks so much for all your help and your great designs!! I am loving it!

Wishing you all a great week.

~ Marcia

Happy Weekend

2009-08-01T09:06:00.004-04:00

Some of my favorite things involves early weekend mornings, when the house is still asleep. Lighting a few scented candles, getting comfy with a cup of joe and reading. I love to surf the web and read your great blogs. I also enjoy surfing Real Estate websites, envisioning myself in such beautiful homees,the things I'd keep the same, the things I'd change. It somehow centers me, and starts me off on a great day. So I bid you all a fantastic weekend! I hope you do things for yourselves that make you smile.

~ Marcia

Forging new paths

2009-07-27T08:19:00.006-04:00

As I sit and ponder what exciting things I should tell you this week, I wondered to myself, why did I start this blog in the first place? Did I deviate from my original intent? What is my mission statement anyway? I then realized, I truly began this blog because I was in awe of all the great and loving blogs I have come across while secretly hiding in the shadows. I stalked some pretty intelligent women who were able to transform ordinary, items no longer loved or needed, into something extraordinary that looked like it came out of a home magazine! I read as women weathered the storm, and held onto their love of Jesus, who put their thanks in God and just Believed that things happen in due time, or if at all. I was amazed and inspired at how one can live without what the Joneses may have had, but live with so much happiness and thankfulness.

It is a path I have always wanted my life to lead, one that included much peace, happiness, simplicity and love. One that held my family together and had the opportunity to meet new, interesting and intelligent people who were on the same enrichment path as I. Lord knows, we all have our storms to weather, but instead of wallow in my losses, I was inspired to celebrate my "wins". I have lost a lot these past 2 years, it is no surprise. It's hard to waddle through murky feelings and not find them posted on this blog every now and again. For those that may not know, my family lost 3 members in 2 years. My Nonno (Grandfather dad's side), 10 months later, my Grandmother (mom's side), then we were blindsided when my dad passed away 9 months after my Grandmother, and 5 months after being diagnosed with cancer. It has been one hell of a roller coaster. Some days, the coaster just plummets straight down into sorrow, the next, it is on its way up into the belief that things happen for a reason.

Even though you may not know me, your blogs have helped me through these tough times. Your faith has restored my own, your love of family and life has given me back a glimpse of sunshine. So I thank you. And I hopefully honor you by taking these first steps to a blogging. I hope you enjoy my little blog, and I hope I can return the favor you have passed along to me. :)

~ Marcia

Summer breeze

2009-07-23T08:30:00.010-04:00

It's hot and humid, and a little grey. We haven't had a good downpour in a weeks, so although I prefer the sunshine, the clouds are welcome here today. Seems to me summer is just breezing by. My job keeps me at my desk for 9 hours a day, watching the world go by from my large window. I realize I am very fortunate to have a job, and as each bill I pay on follows a sigh of relief, that fortune is reiterated within me. Nevertheless, I do daydream that I have the summer off, to go exploring our new hometowm, to jump in the car and visit family and friends back home. To spend relaxing days out on our porch with a strong cup of jo' and a great book.

We eagerly anticipate weekends here in my home and we try to squeeze in as much summer fun as we can. So today I thought I'd share with you some of the fun we've had so far this summer.

We went to the zoo.

We received a visit from family. (She took her picture all by herself, no help from Auntie, thankyouverymuch.)

And we've explored some great walking trails with the pup.

So how has your summer been thus far?

~ Marcia

Thrifty finds

2009-07-21T08:45:00.012-04:00

Today I am participating in Rhoda's thrifty treasures! I hope I am doing this correctly, it's my first time :)

This weekend is proof, great things come in small packages!

I am in love with this frame. It cost $1 at a discount store and holds a picture of my Dad when he was in his 20's, that my Mom took on one of their first dates. It now sits front and center on my writing desk.

The little lamp base, I bought at GW for .99 cents awhile ago. I was looking for a small lampshade. I found this one at another discount store for $1.99. It matches perfectly my sofa's end tables and sits beside my Dad's frame.

This little caraffe was a gift. It was purchased at the same store as the lampshade. It was $4.99 and now sits on my bathroom counter, and will hold mouthwash.

I hope you enjoyed my little tour!

~ Marcia

Collection of sorts

2009-07-17T08:21:00.014-04:00

Thought I'd share my Rooster collection. I *heart* roosters. It started off innocently enough, with one or two and has consistently grown in the past few years. My newest addition, the little silver rooster ornament for .50 cents. I hope you enjoy.

Have a blessed Friday!

~Marcia

A whole bunch of......bill

2009-07-14T09:08:00.003-04:00

I'm kinda slow this week. When its pay week I get out all our bills, line them up, and tick off what my pay check can get rid of for us. Today I'm a bit frustrated! I called our local TV/Internet/phone company who had confirmed a "locked in" price for us for a year. Turns out, they neglected to tell me, that it does not include any taxes and surcharges, nor the rental of the modem (more ranting on this later), nor the taxes if we choose to rent a movie! Now, what company puts together a bundle price, and then tells you, btw, in order to use our services, we do realize you must rent the modem, therefore, here's another nifty little charge. Arrrgh! I understand the supply and demand of the modem, however, why not include that in the bundle package rate?! I'd still be paying for it, but it doesn't have to be listed on my bill under,"Oh, you need us, oh yes you do". Ok, so it doesn't really say that but each month I see that charge that's exactly what I think.

We have been so tempted to cut the TV, phone and Internet, well not the phone, nor the Internet, but we're hoping to look around to find someone a little less $$ and a lot more helpful! I too work as a customer service rep, and I know you attract more bees with honey than vinegar, but when a rep tells my MIL (who was having her own issues with this co') that it is up to the reps discretion if they decide to tell you of their discounts and specials, I thought WHAT?!? What sorta company admits this, first, to a customer and second, even does this!!

So I'm off to pay some bills. And when I get to this bill I think I won't worry about my penmenship. Humph.

~ Marcia

Lazy hazy days

2009-07-10T08:44:00.006-04:00

T.G.I.F!!! This work week has been a long one, after a 3 day weekend. My plans for this coming weekend? Relax. Ahhh, a plan free weekend. Morning coffee on our porch, taking the pup for long walks, visiting rummage sales are my idea of the perfect weekend.

My furbabies are already a step ahead of me, and in relaxation mode!

I hope you all have a great weekend!
~ Marcia

Happy Birthday to my Granny

2009-07-08T07:49:00.006-04:00

Today would've been my beloved Grandma's birthday. She was a beautiful, dignified soul. She was kind, loving, supportive, she loved animals and they were just drawn to her. She always looked great and dressed impeccably with matching jewelry. She was the sweetest soul I have ever known and my absolute favorite person.

She passed away a little over a year ago, joining her beloved husband in Heaven.

Happy Birthday My Granny!! No matter where you are, I will always acknowledge your birthday. I love you and miss you so very much.

~ Marcia

Reconnecting

2009-07-07T07:58:00.005-04:00

I had a friend that I made at the mere age of 12, one who I had lost touch with after high school, but then had reacquainted with when we both worked for a company of 4000 employees. She came and went throughout my life, and then suddenly, she was gone again. I moved, she moved, but I tried to keep in touch through emails but to no avail. I finally gave up trying in 2006. Then yesterday, I find her reply, to an email I sent 3 years earlier! She said she had tried to reach me but had lost my email address until finding the long lost email. What a surprise! We picked up just as we had left off, mind you, many things had changed. Chatting with her warmed my soul as I realize I had not made the same depths of friendships as I had when I was a child. My two closest friends are girls I met at the ages of 11 and 15. My best friend is my twin sister. It's not that I don't try, it just seems that people are so busy and uninterested (maybe?) in making new lasting friendships. I would love to make new friends in my area. It would be great to go for coffee, or peruse a few yard sales, or catch a chick flick.

Please don't get me wrong, I am deeply grateful to the sweet comments and the connections I have made here online. You girls are so kind with your time and your thoughts. And my hope is that this little blog opens the door to meeting some great new girlfriends.

Yet I do wonder, where do you meet new friends? Have you made good friends since leaving high school?

~ Marcia

Great finds on 4th of July weekend

2009-07-06T08:45:00.011-04:00

I was sad to see the last of yesterday's hours tick by, and knowingly would wake to a new work day. Our celebrations started with hubby's birthday, and we had a fantastic holiday weekend. We went to the zoo, to some shops down main street, stopped at some yard sales, saw a few fireworks, went out to dinner, watched a couple of movies, took the pup for long walks in the park. It couldn't have been better! I finally had some luck at a couple of yard sales we hit. I am thrilled with what I got!!

This little beauty caught my eye right away, as did someone elses who called out, "what a gorgeous gravy boat you are holding" as I was examining her. Despite the owners, "firm" when we tried to haggle her, the $4.00 beauty came home with me!

This little jar my MIL found, but had no place to put it. It cost all of .75 cent, and even though I have no idea what to use it for at the moment, I was glad to snatch her up.

These jars my MIL had to talk me into getting. I loved them but didn't know where I would put them. They were $1.50/ea but we talked her down to $2.00/both. I had the tray already and was thrilled when they fit. They now sit above our toilet and hold cotton balls and qtips.

This was my absolute favorite find! I had seen it once before and the woman wanted $100/set, and $75 just the table. This time around we went at closing, she was asking $50/set, my MIL bartered down to $25 for the table and stool!! Sorry about the picture, I forgot to take a "before" pic, until I began painting! It will be perfect for my writing desk! (The stool is being used as a leg rest out on the porch).

How was your 4th of July weekend?

~ Marcia

A birthday recap and a Happy 4th of July!!

2009-07-02T09:01:00.008-04:00

We try to make a great deal about birthdays around here, despite that we haven't been children in a long while! Hubby is great at giving me a full day of "me" on my birthday. A day where I get to choose where I want to go, what I want to do and where I want to eat. For my past three birthdays in the US, he's even taken the day off work to celebrate my birthday with me, because I would've spent the day alone. Ain't he sweet? Well yesterday was his birthday, I didn't take the day off work (it would've been unpaid), but I did ask him where he wanted to go for supper. He insisted that he didn't want to go anywhere because today he had to get up early for work. Instead he just wanted to go to Rita's. Do you have a Rita's near your place? I haven't seen it anywhere but Pennsylvania, but already I am in love! It is so very good. They have great Italian Ice, and custard creams. So after I get off work, we head over to Rita's only for my sweet, indecisive hubby to say that he'd rather go out to eat! I had told him that I would've taken off of work early to take him out but instead worked till 8pm, but he had changed his mind so off to a late dinner we go. His choice, Red Lobster. I must say, it was a good choice! He promptly ordered the most expensive thing on the menu, the little stinker! We don't typically do that but for birthday's its a no holds barred.

So we came home, a little late and a lot full but I do believe he had a happy birthday!

One more day to go then we're off for a 3 day weekend! Is that a collective sigh of relief? Ah, I live for 3 day weekends. We're trying to find out what to do in our area for the 4th. I looove the 4th celebrations. Finding great rummage sales while a parade goes on behind you. The whole town comes alive in a "carnival" like setting. I feel very fortunate to be apart of the celebrations. My adoptive home puts on a good show ;) My MIL got me this cute little pin to wear on the 4th. I can't wait!

Wishing you guys a safe and happy holiday weekend!

~ Marcia

Happy Birthday to my hubby and to Canada!

2009-07-01T09:40:00.010-04:00

Today is my handsome hubby's birthday! He is turning 32 today, when I thought he was turning 33! LOL. He is a sweet soul, very protective, very fair and funny. He is a good man and I adore him! So HAPPY HAPPY BIRTHDAY BABE!!! Wishing you all the best this year and many years to come!

Today is also Canada's birthday! I was born and raised in Canada, and no matter where I am Canada will always hold a special place in my heart. Happy birthday Canada!!

Wishing you guys a great day!

~ Marcia

A weekend wedding

2009-06-29T07:46:00.012-04:00

Hubby and I drove 2 hours to attend his friends wedding. The clouds were threatening a strom on our drive to their wedding.

I believe these gorgeous creatures are Eagles, my eyes saw four of them, my camera, two.

We had to take this little steep road to get up to the golf course.

We got there a few minutes late and were told to wait back, as the procession line was beginning its entrance. Then a few more minutes another woman came out and told us to hurry along in they hadn't started walking out yet. Just as we began our walk down the wooden walkway, who do we cut off, but the grooms parents! They were so sweet and told us to go on ahead. The entire wedding watched as hubby and I walked down their "aisle" to their wedding march! We were mortified! But thankfully they took it all in stride.

I won't post pics of the newlyweds, as I'm unsure how they would feel about that. But here is hubby and I on our way back home. To attend a wedding and not know a single person besides hubby, it was a really good time!

So, how was your weekend?

~ Marcia

Favorite finds

2009-06-25T08:59:00.005-04:00

I thought I'd share some simple pics of some of my favorite finds. The rummage Gods have not been as kind to me so far this season, but Cracker Barrel and Christmas Tree Shops sure have! LOL. This cute little wreath was $6.99!! Please excuse our door, its a bit beat up from previous owners!

This little guy was calling to me as I was innocently walking by through Cracker Barrel. You don't buy it either eh? Hmm... He was 40% off and came to a grand total of $4.99! I'm not crazy about the sponge so I'll probably end up replacing it but I love this guy.

This find is one of my favorites. My sister gave me the frame years ago, and I just unpacked it from one of our moving boxes. I found this picture that I adore, my sister and I with our beloved grandparents. And sure enough, the picture fit right in! The little home sign I purchased at Goodwill for .99 cents. I have seen the exact same thing up town for $4.99! They now live on my front entrance table.

~ Marcia

Back in the saddle

2009-06-23T07:43:00.008-04:00

Well four days have blown by so quickly! Everyone left us on Sunday and yesterday I was just exhausted. I realized rather soon, how I forgot my camera pretty much everywhere we went. Arrgh. But I did manage a couple of snapshots. When my family gets together we loooove to shop! We bargain hunt the best deals we can find. This trip it was for clothes. My sister cleaned house at Carters outlet and Burlington Coat Factory. She bought yoga pants for her reduced down to $1.99! LOVE it!

I got some nice little finds myself. I purchased these shoes, which were regular $39.99, down to $24.99. They are sooooo comfy. I'm glad my sister talked me into it.

I also picked up this cute little top on sale for $7.99! It was so sweet, but something I would've walked right by. My MIL chose it, I tried it on and am in love.

I finally found this little sign. I have been looking for once since I've seen it at Walmart for $11.99. It was to much for me so I waited patiently and finally found one at $4.99! I'm not crazy about the color and may paint it. I plan to hang it over our bed.

But this is by far my absolute favorite! I cried so much when they left, she asked me if I was sick! She speaks in the third person, is funny as heck and makes the house come alive. It is to quiet without her and I miss her sooooo badly. I hate goodbyes. She took over the camera and took a few pictures, this is one of my favorites.

I missed you girls! It's good to be back!! How was your week?

~ Marcia

A busy week ahead!

2009-06-15T08:59:00.004-04:00

I hope you had a great weekend! On Saturday we stopped in a random open house to ooh and ahh over its grandeur and decor. Then we headed back for a "movie" night. Sunday we spent at the park, picnicing, and playing games and letting Cinnamon run to her hearts content! (I also snuck chicken pieces off the kabob to share with her, shhh). The park is right around the corner from our place. It has a river that seperates it from the farmers land. We were visited on the other side of the river by some curious donkeys! It was an incredible sight!! Not to many times have I seen donkeys near a public park. I only wish the batteries in my camera worked.

This week is a very busy one for me! Tonight we're having my uncle spend the night then on Wednesday my mom and sister and itty bitty neice are coming to stay with us! Oh and my mom's little dog too! Did I mention we live in a one bedroom apartment? LOL. Not sure how we'll all fit but it'll be fun! I gotta run and get this place spick and span before heading off to work. I hope you girls have a great week. I'll be back soon.

~ Marcia

2009-06-12T08:45:00.009-04:00

Happy Friday Y'all!! Can we say y'all up north? I just like the ring to it, sounds much more inviting and friendly than "you all". Anybody with me? No, well then...moving on. ;)

Thought I'd share a pic of my entrance hall table and the start of it's transformation. I blogged about it a couple of blogs back and just added some of my favorite things.

I added some crocheted wooden words that I purchased online for $5.99 for the whole lot of them! I hung them on the mirror above the table. I wrapped some green and blue ribbon around the wired hangers to coordinate the color of the table.

Then I added my absolute favorite rummage sale find. The crystal hurricane candle that I paid $1.99 for! LOVE it!! It is so beautiful lit. Beside the hurricane candle is a great GW find! Its a little rooster ashtray! We don't smoke and its to small to hold keys so I'm not sure what I'll do with it, but I loved it right away!

Here's how my little table looks so far. It's still a work in progress...Now, I just gotta get rid of all the shoes!

Have a great weekend!

~ Marcia

A little bit creative

2009-06-11T08:46:00.005-04:00

I have stumbled upon so many very creative ladies! I am envious of their abilities to create. But there are things that leave me stumped, like sewing for instance. Or quilting. Both things I would love to learn but fear I have two left hands (instead of feet, get it?) Anyway, I thought I'd share with you one of my creative projects.

My beloved Grandparents met in the theater. Grandpa sang opera while Grandma tickled the ivories. There is a song called, "Because" that Grandpa would sing while my Grandma played the piano. After Grandpa's passing, my uncle put together a compilation of the two of them singing and playing the piano. The photo below is the one he used for the tape's cover. I decided to use this picture and make frames for my sisters and my mom. I made theirs in dark brown and ventured into greens for mine. I prefer theres but I live and learn ;) You can't really tell from the picture but if you click on it you will see I spelt out the word BECAUSE in little metal letters. I wasn't being so smart to use round and square letters, it was because the store had run out!

Wanna share your favorite projects?

~ Marcia

A lovely home

2009-06-10T08:46:00.009-04:00

We live in a tiny little apartment on goregous grounds. We do enjoy it but we do envision ourselves one day living in a home large enough to hold our family and friends. One that does not require air mattresses or sleeping in the living room. LOL. For now it is fabulous, but our dreams lead us to homes like this one. One that oozes charm, one which is so inviting it just calls out to you. We saw this beautiful home on a drive through the countryside last weekend. It has been calling to us.

~ Marcia

2009-06-09T08:41:00.007-04:00

While out over the weekend I bit the bullet and got my haircut! I am trying to grow it to shoulder length so the cut is a wee bit to short for me but she did a great job! It finally is curling again. Although hubby loving calls it my "mushroom cut". Sigh. But it is hair and it will grow. I will take a pic when its working with me ;) Thanks so much for all your comments. I will definetly try the Fructis Sleek and Shine shampoo! Thank you Mona!

I also want to take a moment to thank Kim over at BellaDella and Cat over at Paisley Cats for all their kindness and patience with my blogging questions! They are some of the sweetest souls I have ever had the pleasure of "meeting".

So today's post. Do you recall my eagerness (whining) in wanting to get a front entrance table? Well over the weekend we stopped into the Christmas Tree Shops. I love love this store! And I found this little darling. I am not sure if it's meant as a front entrance table.

Here's a side view. I like that it isn't that large in depth so it still leaves a lot of room at the entrance.

I did add a little pillow and cross to my black wreath stand. And the basket beside the little table holds Cinnamon's leash and towel. I will add more pics once its all put together. Any ideas what to use the shelves for?

Have a great Tuesday!

~ Marcia

Rainy days and Frizzy Hair

2009-06-05T08:47:00.009-04:00

It's been raining daily in my neck of the woods. So much so they called for a flood watch the other night! I looove to fall asleep to the sound of rain. In our little apartment, our patio is right off our bedroom window, so we can sleep with the windows wide open without fear of rain spilling in. Rainy days have me feeling all cocooning, (is that a word?). I love to light candles, play some operatic music (reminds me of my grandpa) and cook. My kitchen is a tiny galley kitchen that I posted about a few posts back, but it works great for me. I love to make my mom's famous spaghetti sauce from scratch and let it sit all day, giving off aromas of onions, olive oil and tomatoes. It is such a welcoming scent. My mom's recipes usually start off with olive oil, chopped onions and garlic. Just that alone smells soooo good. Yum mm, I'm making myself hungry.

Anyway, another reason I am loving the rain is that the humidity is gone! I got a horrible haircut back in March, from a self proclaimed "stylist" that decided, thick hair was a curse and proceeded to cut into my curls with a razor blade! Shocked I tell you, shocked! Where we live now seems to have much more humidity than up North. So, today's post needs your expertise. I am thinking I will need to bite the bullet and get my hair trimmed to help even out the holes "Mr. Stylist" left in my hair. What I do need is some info from you lovely ladies. What are your favorite hair products? How do you keep it from turning into one large frizz ball?

Here's a pic of me and hubby at Disney world back in 2007 where my hair thrived in the humidity there! Which leads me to believe it's in the haircut.

Please excuse the "bangs". I tried to do the side swept look, so not attractive on me. That's my daddy in the back ground on the right. I love how the fireworks are all light up around him.

So that's my hair dilemma. Anything you can suggest would be so appreciated.

Have a great weekend girls!!

~ Marcia

Some of my favorite shots

2009-06-04T07:48:00.009-04:00

~ Marcia

A tragedy

2009-06-01T09:28:00.005-04:00

I just received word that my brother in law was witness to a horrible car and semi-truck collision. My B.I.L had stopped on the side of the highway and ran to help. What he saw has shaken him to his core. The lovely lady in the car had passed at the scene from her injuries. Unfortunately her daughter had been follwing her in a seperate car and was witness to the whole terrible scene. When my B.I.L reached the car the daughter was naturally hysterical on the phone with 911, holding her mom's head. The driver of the semi-truck was apparently shocked, and crying and very upset as well. It just goes to show that life is but an instant. It reminds me to love without worry, be happy when the mood strikes and say thank you for another day of everyone I love being safe and sound.

Hug the people you hold dear, and be nice to the ones you meet, even if they are snippish or harsh. We don't know what steps their shoes have taken lately.

~ Marcia

In memory

2009-05-29T08:29:00.004-04:00

It has been a year today that my beloved Granny passed away at the young age of 87. My grandpa, her love, passed away back in 1995 and there wasn't a day that went by that she didn't miss him. So I am happy that they are reunited in Heavan, happy that she no longers lives by replying on strangers in a sterile "hospital" type enviornment, happy that I know she is finally happy and at peace. But boy do I miss her! She was the most sweetest, most caring, most beautiful soul I have ever had the honor of knowning. She helped shape who it is I am, and even more so, who it is I desire to be.

This picture was taken many many years ago, at my Grandparents house. I am the little face pearing out behind my cousin. Behind me is my uncle, my grandparents youngest child who is also a twin. Did I mention today is their birthday? Their mom passed away on their birthday and they saw that as a honor. I think that is wonderful. So happy birthday Uncles!!

And my Granny, here's to you I miss you more and more as the days pass but know one day I will see you again.

~ Marcia

Holiday weekends finds

2009-05-28T08:11:00.006-04:00

Yay! I was able to get a little more juice out of my batteries today. Just enough to snap a few pics of the great finds I picked up over the long weekend. So, without further adieu...

These cute little shoes I picked up at the local Kmart. It's the first time I went in and was amazed! All the other Kmarts I ventured in were dirty, clothes and housewares strewn across the floors. The prices were outrages for the store we were in!! So to say I went in very apprehensive is an understatement. Well, to be very honest, I needed to use the girls room and this store was close on our outing. Anywho, it was great!! The store was immaculate, and the prices were very reasonable. (And the washrooms were clean!). I fell in love with these shoes. They came in four colors and its the first time I purchase shoes outside of black or tan. I love them!! They were all of $18.95!

Hubby and I have a GPS that we received from my in-laws last Christmas. It has saved us from being lost countless times! What we like to do is ignore the directions and travel about different streets we have not ventured on before. We especially love doing this in residential areas. We found some gorgeous homes this way. And this past weekend a lonely little rummage sale. We got out and I quickly acquired this little guy for $5! I am going to spray paint it white and plan on using it on my front hall table that I have yet to purchase. Sidenote: I went to a rummage sale and was interested in buying the wicker writing desk the lady had for sale. She was asking $100, for the table, the small bench, and a few other things I did not need. I asked her how much simply for the table, she said rather rudely, "Do you mean writing desk?!" (In all fairness, it was the only table/writing desk on her front lawn!), anyway after some explanation as to how it would be much more expensive if I did not acquire the rest of her possesions, she rattled off a price of $75! For a second hand, wicker, writing desk that I would need to spray paint anyway. I said a quick "thank you", which I do believe she heard "than.." as she quickly turned her back to me and walked away. I realize it is opening season for rummage sales and there will be plenty more on a Saturday morning, I just wonder if she does realize this very thing.... Anyway, all this to say I am still searching for a front table to put my newly purchased wreath holder, which I plan to use for a different purpose. (Btw, I did NOT purchase it from that lady. In fact I purchased nothing and simply walked away and will not return to her yard sales). Hmmph.

Our apartment complex has a book swap at the gym. There are shelves of books that you can take or leave if you're done reading something. I think its fantastic! I have dropped off a few books and magazines and found some great reads! I recently picked up this one after a workout with hubby. I loooove Dorothea Benton Frank's novels. She is a great summer read. I have yet to visit the Lowcountry in South Carolina but after reading a few of her novels I feel that it is a place I must visit. This was a free find!! Is there anything better?

~ Marcia

2009-05-27T09:02:00.002-04:00

I am starting off a little late, I'm still in the long weekend mode ;)
I had a fabulous Memorial Day weekend! As I hope you all did too! The weather was gorgeous, high of 89 degrees. Warm temps, lazy days, it was fantastic. Hubby and I stopped at random garage sales, we took the pup out for a long hike and we had dinner with family. Hubby also surprised me on Friday with our first "official" date night. We went out to Red Lobster. Yuummm! This Friday is my turn and I'm checking around to see our options. I am real excited to surprise him with something fun!

Tomorrow I will post pictures. I apologize, my cameras batteries has died. Sigh....

Until tomorrow wishing you all a great Wednesday!

~ Marcia

My first award!

2009-05-21T08:00:00.003-04:00

I am so excited! I received my very first award!! Thank you sooo much to Mervat who not only writes one amazing blog, but TWO! And she's a Mom, a scientist and a soon to be novelist! She can be seen at http://www.isthatnew.blogspot.com/ (I SO wish I could learn to link!). I am so grateful Mervat, thank you so much for nominating me!

The stipulation of this award states that I must list my 5 least favorite things before I can nominate some of my own favorite blogs. Therefore, here are my 5:

1) I really dislike waking up to an alarm. It bothers me so that I can't even eat breakfast right away. I must wait about an hour to be able to eat so as not to be sick.

2) I very much dislike my kitty's habit of using our carpet as his very large litterbox. He is 9 years old and rather skittish so when he is afraid or angry he'll let me know by urinating on the carpet. Just when I think all is well, he'll do it sometimes in his box, sometimes on the carpet. Arrgh.

3) Confrontation. I try to avoid telling someone that what they did/said or didn't do bothered me. Then it eats me up inside and I spend all this time rehashing what they could've meant. It is a frustrating waste of emotional time.

4) Storms. I am unjustifiably afraid of tornados, earthquakes, tsunamis. Anything that can take my house away. I panic, even though I do not live in an area that these natural disasters frequent, I still panic.

5) Much like my fear of storms is my very real fear of being in a car crash. I am the "backseat driver" everyone hates to have. My foot automatically slams on the non existent passenger brake. I will tell hubby, "he's braking" when the guy is four car lengths in front of us. As I get older this fear has gotten stronger. It's not as though the people I ride with want to get into an accident and I am the only one that doesn't. So I don't really know where this fear came from...

Now here are 5 of my favorite blogs:

BellaDella

Wsprsweetlyofcottages

Bless our Nest

Lady Liberty Patriot

Farm Wife Primatives

~ Marcia *Smiles*

Let the planning begin!

2009-05-19T08:41:00.012-04:00

Yesterday I approached hubby about my idea of a weekly date night. We have gotten lucky by getting paid each alternate week so I decided the week I was paid I had to come up with a planned activity for our date night. The rules are simple, it does not need to be extravagant. It can be a planned meal and a rental movie, a dinner out, stopping at a new trail and then going for ice cream. It just has to have some thought put into it. I was actually surprised by how readily he agreed! I thought he would've put up more of a fight! Don't get me wrong we always do things on weekends and he is great at stopping at shops we haven't been before, or wanting to take Cinnamon on new walking trails. I just wanted date night to be something special, something of thought that we put in to show each other how much we care and the time we spend together.

So, I have been racking my brain trying to come up with a great first idea! (I got off easy, it's his date night this coming weekend ;) I think for the first date night I plan we're going to take a haunted ghost tour. We have to meet at The shop of Ms. Somebody (?) and then we walk with lanterns around the area while our guide explains the history and hauntings of the area! (No worries on ruining the surprise, hubby doesn't read my blog).

I am so exicted! I am really pleased we are going to do this. So to cap off this blog I decided to share with you my favorite photo of the two of us, our wedding photo. It does require a little explanation.

We decided to get married but in order to file the required paperwork (as I was not born in the US ),we chose to marry in front of the justice of the peace instead of taking a year to plan an elaborate affair. We did however, wish to have a big celebration with family and friends afterwards but money, as always, had other ideas. LOL.
We got married at my in laws big old Victorian house. She is a gorgeous old dame! That day we had a blizzard so severe they had not seen one like it in 20 years! Don't let the picture fool you, I was freeeezing. The dress was a steal! I wanted something beautiful for the pictures that we took but I was on a tight budget. It is hard to tell in the photo but it even had a little cathedral train! I bought this dress at Herrburgers which is something like a JC Penney. It was marked down 80% and I paid a grand total of $23! Thrilled I tell you, thrilled!! Hubby looked so handsome and asked me if I minded if he wore his trademark bandana. Who am I to say no? I wore leopard shoes!

~ Marcia

A weekend gone by

2009-05-18T08:38:00.016-04:00

One of our favorite weekend things to do is to find new walking trails. Here is a favorite of mine that we visited earlier this month.

This is the one we visted on the weekend.

Here is a picture under this gorgeous tree.

And here we are :)

On another note, I am planning a special date night! Hubby and I seem to be in a rutt. Things have hit us hard in our short marriage. Being new to the area its usually just the two of us and we've enjoyed exploring our new home. But now I want to do something a bit more planned., something out of the norm that we'll both enjoy.

Do you have any special date nights? What are your favorite times spent with your hubby?

~ Marcia

Yay for Friday and being present

2009-05-15T08:47:00.009-04:00

The older I get the more I realize just how quickly time passes. I just said to my coworker who graciously picks me up each morning until our car is fixed, that "Didn't this weekend just blow by? It's already Monday". And here we are facing another weekend. If you measure time by weeks it is easy to see just how short life is. How living in the NOW is so important, especially to someone like me who relives the past and dreams about the future. I am trying to learn to focus on the now. Be present and accountable. I have a tendancy to realize just how great something is after it has happened. Doesn't make for such a great lifestyle. So I am becoming more aware of today, its sights, smells and sounds. I am also attempting to put a more positive spin on things such as if its a rainy cold drizzly kinda day, its no longer a yucky day but rather a perfect day to stay in and cook, or curl up with a cup of tea and read a good book. Even if I have to trudge through it to get to work.

So bringing me back to today. I LOVE Fridays. It's always been my favorite day of the week. The last day of school and now work, anticipation of the weekend and now the day of my alltime favorite TV show Ghost Whisperer. Mom and I watch it then we call each other (she's in Canada) and discuss exactly what just took place. Tonight is the season finale! Poor hubby, I get off at 8pm, he picks me up, race home and I dont speak to him until after the show is over. Yes, I love it that much. ;)

I just received my first paycheck! Woohoo for a second income!! I am planning to pay bills then do a little shopping. I'm thinking of hitting up these two places and then go rummage saleling...(is that even a word?)

Do you have a Christmas Tree Shop where you are? It's amazing! Very good finds on lots of different things. I bought a great little light there for $3.95 once. I think its in one of my first posts.

What are your weekend plans?

~ Marcia

It's all in the eyes....

2009-05-13T08:35:00.004-04:00

I posted the other day that I am just inspired by the gorgeous homes you ladies have. I would love to incorporate more lace and "girly" textures to my home. Right now it's a work in progress, but with work it's one step at a time. I realize on my home tour that I didn't show you our bedroom. That's because it is no where near where I'd like it to be. Once it is I will definetly open the doors to you!

I've been thinking, who better to ask than a slew full of talented ladies! Now, my question isn't in a decorative nature but rather a frugal one as I really wish to only purchase one and hopefully the right one from the start! :) I wear sunscreen daily, always on my face. But am noticing fine lines and wrinkles getting bigger by the day! I love to smile but am so self concious about it because my eyes just wrinkle right up! It's terrible! And yes, maybe vain, but I do wish to feel comfortable in my own skin. Hubby says it's an onset of having to work with the younger end of 20 year olds and he just may be right. But again, to me, its just being comfortable in my own skin.

I have heard of the old wives tale of brewing green tea, leaving it in the fridge and then using it as a compress in the morning. This does seem to work a little but do you ladies have any tips, tricks or secrets of the trade? Do you have a great eye lifting serum that's worked wonders for you?

Please share your secrets!! LOL. I want to pick up something this weekend and am looking for something that works.

Thanks!!!!
~Marcia

Giving Thanks

2009-05-12T08:19:00.008-04:00

It seems lately that sadness is all around me. My best friends mom is fighting cancer, one of our good online friend's friend's hubby passed away suddenly. My childhood friend just lost a close friend of hers also suddenly. Do you ever get the feeling that the earth beneath your feet has yet to settle?

My dad's passing marked it's 3rd month a couple of days ago and I was a wreck. I know he has passed on and is in a better place but yesterday for a split second I forgot. How I could forget when he is the first thing I think of when I wake and the last when I put my head on the pillow is beyond me, yet somehow, for a split second I forgot he was gone. And then it dawned on me, I would never hear my dad's voice again. I had to steady myself from bawling at work. My desk sits in front of rows and rows of windows. It is truly a gorgeous spot. Anyway, after my realization this little brown bird flew up to the window, he was so close you could hear the fluttering of his wings against the closed window. He looked right at me then flew away! What does it mean? I am not sure, but it brought me comfort when I was at a low point. So I give thanks to the little bird and maybe his poor eyesight. ;)

What I wanted to blog about today is giving thanks, when things seem tough or uncertain. I am trying be more of the glass is half full, rather than its half empty personality. I decided to create a "grateful journal" and write daily what I am grateful for. It is so easy to see the negative when life is so chaotic and ignore the positive. So today's thanks is to meeting all of you. Being invited into your homes, your lives and your journey through life. Thank you! I am also thankful for family. Here and above, for who they are has shaped me and who it is I desire to be. I keep this little gem I purchsed at JoAnn Fabrics for $1.99 last Thanksgiving, right next to my kitchen sink. I don't think I could have said it any better.

What are you all grateful for?

~ Marcia

Inspiration

2009-05-11T08:38:00.003-04:00

I've surfed many a blog before ever attempting to create my own. There are a slew of blogs that I have admired, the homes you all have created. They are sanctuaries, areas where I could imagine curling up and reading a good book. Homes that I would love to stand by a window, watching the snow or rain outdoors, holding a hot cup of coffee snuggled in my plush robe. I am in love with your homes! The colors, the textures, the plush pillows! You ladies are my inspiration. I love your homes, I love how you keep them so beautiful, so filled with love, havens from the outside world. So here's to you, hats off to your gorgeous homes. Thanks for all the inspiration!

~ Marcia

Wishing you a Happy Mother's Day!

2009-05-10T10:24:00.005-04:00

I just want to take the opportunity to wish everyone a very blessed Mother's Day. To all you Moms, Grandmoms, Foster Moms, "Adoptive" Moms and Moms to the furry kind, to everyone who cares for someone outside of themselves, who loves deeply and hurts badly when it concerns the well being of someone they love.

To all of you, have a very special Mother's Day.

To my Mom, my sisters who are mom's, my MIL and my cherished Grandma up in Heaven, I love you ladies very much!

~ Marcia

Home tour.....take 4

2009-05-07T08:42:00.006-04:00

Today we move onto the kitchen. It's a tiny, galley style kitchen but it works well for me. The standard appliances are a little dated but they are in great working condition so there's no real complaints there. It has a dishwasher, which being two people, I have yet to use, and a garbage disposal which I Love! Not sure how I managed without one before. ;)

The cabinets are low enough that I can put decorations on top. I love that! Here are some of my favorite things.

I admit, I do have an affinity for roosters!

~ Marcia

Home tour....take 3

2009-05-04T08:23:00.007-04:00

Good morning!

Today's rain makes for a perfect day to sit back with a cup of Joe, light some scented candles and read all your great blogs. But alas, I have rejoined the working world and am off to my first day of work! Yay for a second income!! Booo, for not being able to leisurely enjoy my days anymore. I do hope in my career to be able to find work that I can do from home....but for now, I am very thankful to the powers that be to have found a good job at all!! So here's today's quick blog then I am off to get ready ;)

This picture is of our tiny yet efficient laundry room. I love, love LOVE having a laundry room in our apartment. It keeps me from carting laundry down to the main laundry, coin operated rooms. The appliances are a little dated but they work and I am so grateful to have them here.

Right next door to the laundry room is our bathroom. For an apartment it is rather large. I don't believe the pictures really show this but it's very roomy, perfect to leisurely baths.

I don't know about your kitties but mine loves to drink out of a dripping faucet! The wooden star case holds T.P., and Kleenex. Here's another shot of the little shelf.

Hope you enjoyed today's tour. I must go and get ready. Wishing you a happy Monday!

~ Marcia

Home tour....take 2

2009-05-01T11:10:00.007-04:00

Today's tour will continue in the living room and dinning room. From the front entrance the living room is situated to the right. The TV stand is actually my grandma's old sewing machine. I put the lace cover to protect the wood from the TV.

The sofa is on the right of this picture. It also came from my grandma. The blue blanket you see is to protect it from Cinnamon.

If you look closely you can see Cinnamon and Roscoe both wanted to be in the picture ;)

I love to have pictures of our families and friends. I don't agree with real estate professionals who say to take down all the family pictures when showing your home. I think it makes the house look loved and happy. Anyway, I have a ton of pictures and am running out of room! The shelf is actually meant as a fireplace mantle that my parents gave me when I had a home with a fireplace. I asked huby to put it up above the window. I like it there.

From the living room it opens into the dinning room. It's a tiny little space off the kitchen but I think it's cute. I like that for an apartment it's seperate from the kitchen.

I don't care much for the standard issued light fixture or the carpet in the dinning room but otherwise I like it. I am going to put tall candles in the candle holders on the table. You can't see it from the picture but they are in an old silver serving tray I got at a thrift store for .99 cents. The door is off to the little "porch". I'll show you that in another tour.

Hope you liked it!

~Marcia

Home tour...take 1

2009-04-30T09:42:00.014-04:00

I love reading your blogs and especially tend to gravitate toward the home tours you post. So I thought I'd reciprocate and begin my own.

We currently live in an apartment and are loving it! If things need fixing I just call up the service desk and it's done, Voila! No money out of pocket, no sweat and tears. I do however, miss having a little yard to tinker in. But for now, it's perfect, and it's home.
I mentioned I brought back some treasures I had stored away in MN which I will point out along the home tour. Now being an apartment dweller all the walls are white. I have not even inquired if I could paint them because I believe I would have to repaint them white upon leaving and that really doesn't intrigue me. So for now, they will remain white.

We begin with our front entrance...

The basket on the bottom right holds the dogs towel (for rainy days), her toys and her leash and potty bags. I added the stars above my mirror. I like them there as they draw the eye up towards the high ceiling. I was thrilled when I first came to PA as stars seem very popular here! Beneath the mirror is where I would like to put an entrance table with a stained glass lamp my dad made and maybe some pictures. But for now it is what it is.

The wreath my dad made for me. Which is why it's on the inside of the door and not the outside. I was worried about the elements. After hanging it there though I have to admit I like it. The little sign above the door I purchased at a thrift shop in MN for .99 cents. I love it!

This little table is just to the right of my entrance. I brought back the lamp which my MIL gave me. It has a brother which I will put at the other end of the sofa on the matching table. The little picture is of my grandpa and the one above the table is my grandma. That too has a matching frame which I will use to put my hubby's grandma's picture in.

Tomorrow we'll continue onto the laundry room. Which isn't all that exciting, or big so I may incorporate two tours in one.

Have a great day!

~ Marcia

It's good to be home

2009-04-29T09:00:00.005-04:00

Hi Girls!

We got back from our trip this past weekend. We flew to MN then drove to Canada and continued on to PA. Don't you just love airports? I love the ambience, the excitement, the tears, the sadness, the joy, the anticipation.

We were able to spend a couple of days with family and friends and did a lot of laughing, remincing and enjoying our surroundings. Then it was back on the road to head to Canada.

Don't you find Lake Superior in Wisconsin just beautiful?

Another gorgeous shot of Lake Superior.

About twenty minutes after this picture was taken we drove into Ashland, Wisconsin and were greeted by this....

A horrendous wintery mess. It lasted through most of Michigan and then the skies cleared and the view was gorgeous again.

This is one of my favorite shots on this road trip. I wish I remembered where this was exactly but I know it was on the way back to PA.

Not bad for being in a moving vehicle eh? But I may have missed a few things as I apparently dozed off a time or two. ;)

It was a great,therapeutic, soul warming trip. ;) I wish I had more pics to show you but most were of friends and I'm not sure how they'd feel with their pictures on my blog.

I was anticipating getting back to blogging on Monday but that day was spent doing laundry, cleaning and unpaking all my treasures I brought back with me from MN. Then Tuesday came and I was asked back for a second interview at a potential job. I am thrilled to say I got it and start next week!!!!! Woo hoo! Back to the working world ;)

As for today, my plan is to sit with my cup of joe, listen to the rain falling and catch up on your great blogs. I am anxious to see what you girls have been up to while I was away. Thanks so much to everyone who stopped by and left kind messages. It made my day to see that ;) Now I'm off to read. Happy Wednesday!

~ Marcia

I already miss you

2009-04-16T10:43:00.008-04:00

I was going to start my post today with a picture from hubby's car accident. But first, I headed over to see what my friend Kim at Belladella was up to. I was shocked to see what she had posted! She put up a pic of my new header and a little comment to her friends to come on over and check me out. I am so touched! Just that little gesture means so much to me. In today's world where things are keep your head down and go faster, I am always surprised by how sweet people can be. I wish I knew how to link over to her site... BUT since I don't you can find her on my sidebar. She is a sweet sweet soul and has a gorgeous new house and general store. Her blog is great too ;)

That truly made me smile. Thanks Kim. ;)

On another note, hubby and I are heading out on a road trip tomorrow. With his banged up car you ask? Nope, that one will sit licking its wounds. Instead we'll fly back to MN and then drive to MTL to visit family. So, I must tend to the million things I have let go until today! But you guys are much more fun. Before I go here are some pics I made from (my newest addiction) scrapblog last night. My friend Kim over at Belladella introduced me to it and I believe my forefinger is actually a little numb from using my laptops mouse ;)

I bid you guys a fantastic week and I will be back with pics and sidenotes from our trip!

P.S. Please excuse the crazy colors on my blog. I have begun playing around with font sizes and colors where I should really be packing!
~ Marcia